No-discipline parenting is becoming a more common theme. By teaching children that their actions won't result in consequences from the parents, children become more reckless in search of attention. I have seen it countless times before, and will see it countless times in the future.
Negligent parents have been and continue to be a real problem. The notion that it's "more common"? Meanwhile, a lot of children are reckless attention seekers because they're reckless attention seekers. The same as adults. If anything, I'd say the internet makes it easier for attention seekers to achieve that attention where in the past there was a social rebuff against it. Ie, I don't think it's really a kid thing. Btw, the above has nothing to do with sex, unless you're imagining something really bizarre is going on.
The natural man's desire is to have sex. There is no denying it. If you aren't interested in that kind of thing, good for you! But women are objectifying themselves and then complaining when men are staring or act like pigs. The penis we have between our legs controls our thoughts more often than we care to imagine. Personally, I hate it when women go walking down the grocery store isles with skin-tight pants or booty-shorts because I don't want to think about them like that.
Yea, I'm pretty sure it's your testicles promoting your thinking, not your penis. Regardless, if you have a problem looking at women as people without thinking about sex at the grocery store, then the problem is you. Yes, clearly at least some of them are doing it as an advertisement, of sorts, to attract a mate. They're probably not looking for you as a mate, though, so I would hope that you be rational enough to override your sex drive inherently that it would never raise to the level of annoyance because they're doing it. Seriously, you functionally upset because they're seeking a mate that isn't you. Which leads to..
To be crude, the ability to pull out is, in itself, great contraception.
Beyond the fact that it's not 100% effective, read above. If you're having issues at all when women are merely dressed provocatively, in your opinion, what belief do you have that you or others will "pull out" when the sex drive in you and the one you're with goes directly against that?
To not be crude, it is possible that they just don't want to worry about it. Lack of availability exists, and I don't deny it. But just the other day a colleague was expressing how concerned she was for her son. He had premature sex (age 16) with a girl who was claiming that she was taking contraceptive pills. Well, she wasn't, yet the son did not wear a condom, and so now it is very possible that he is the father, and they will most likely get an abortion because they don't want to deal with their consequences.
Always wear a condom. I repeat, always wear a condom. Pregnancy isn't the only thing sexually transmitted thing to worry about, and women will lie for sex just like men will. Also, yea, don't be shy about giving your sons condoms and pills/condoms for the daughters. Availability shouldn't be an excuse, and that means making it not an excuse.
Neither of them are morally correct as the child does not have the ability to choose for itself as a doctor is performing an abortion. Personally, I don't touch to much on rape-based abortions, primarily because I don't like the concept of abortion and rape is a touchy subject.
Creating children in the first place isn't morally correct because one is personally responsible for the child but no person has knowledge of their fate to guarantee they'll be alive to raise a child. So, yea, throwing in morality as the fundamental desired doesn't make any sense.
"If you can't do the time, don't do the crime." is the saying that comes to mind. While sex itself is not a crime, premature sex is, and if you aren't prepared for the consequences then don't have unprotected sex.
Premature sex isn't a crime. More over, a lot of married people don't want 20 children nor do they want to become celibate after children number 2 or 3 arrives. Moreover, no form of birth control is 100% effective--"in reality, 9 out of 100 pill users get pregnant each year." I'm not advocating abortion, though. I just think that people point too much to the idea that people will just not have sex or that it's all teenagers that are getting pregnant. People just don't count all the unwanted children in a marriage. Which leads to #1, negligent parents. That's a major reason I don't call it a new thing. As harsh as it is, abortion would naturally lead to less negligent parents. So would contraceptives.
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