In case it wasn't pure luck, I tried the toggle controls menu previously with no luck, this time I had all but start ticked to toggle and selected toggle all, and now the overlay is back just reopened it and ticked starts box and OK, don't forget to check your control overlays opacity.
Only thing drive me crazy is all these new horror games nowadays is its so dark, all time. I can't even play them. I understand they trying to create spooky but be creative a little, not just darkness with pop out scare scenes.