If your castle is called "Dunan Castle" you are not shadowbanned, idk if you are using a NA version of the game or not though, so if you are not this would mean nothing to you, but if you are then you aren't shadowbanned
Here is my Shiro who's parent is Camilla. Idk if you wanted him from right after the paralogue or not, but this is the one i have. Prolly not as fresh as you would like though.