being avoided

*Edited* Disregard this comment.

huh?

Just tell her man, grow some balls! I hear women like those! Maybe she's nervous about getting closer to you? Just...tell her how you feel and see what happens! If she says no well...you still have the Temp!

[quote name='Pinkie232' timestamp='1327765416']grow some balls! [/quote] i wish those could be bought in stores....
anything else not work related that i wanna say to her won't come out if i try to talk to her..

i hate myself.

right now i say to myself "okay, i'll tell her tomorrow"
tomorrow: "......"

Hey man,i feel for u cos im in a similar position,men and women jus speak diffrent languages a spose.i given up tryin to second guess wot goes on in girls hedz.try not to dwell on er to much how eva hard that may be and try bein nice and natural when u do see her.

I would totally give you some of my gigantic balls, but it just doesn't work that way

Just close your eyes, breath, and say something! If she likes and enjoys you she'll obviously respond with the same kindness! Or you could even trick her into starting the conversation! Get creative!

[quote name='scotch' timestamp='1327766016'] Hey man,i feel for u cos im in a similar position,men and women jus speak diffrent languages a spose.i given up tryin to second guess wot goes on in girls hedz.try not to dwell on er to much how eva hard that may be and try bein nice and natural when u do see her. [/quote]
we see each other often. very often.

i'm only thinking, either she's also nervous, hates me or really trying to avoid me for some reason.
[quote name='Pinkie232' timestamp='1327766152'] I would totally give you some of my gigantic balls, but it just doesn't work that way Just close your eyes, breath, and say something! If she likes and enjoys you she'll obviously respond with the same kindness! Or you could even trick her into starting the conversation! Get creative! [/quote]
like i said. even if i do try, no words would come out.

i do talk to her though, and she responds nicely. but it's only work related.


should i really ask her?
it will change our current situation to either good, or worse.

Ask her bro, and if it goes wrong I'LL CHANGE MY NAME BACK TO SUPRGAMR232 (OR PROBABLY SOMETHING DIFFERENT BUT NOT PINKIE232)

i'll try the best i could to ask her.

why would you change your name back if it ends badly?

edit: i'd like to have a female here to help me.

i don't really understand what's going on, but i'll look at your previous posts.

You should ask her if she's avoiding you.

However, the problem with that is you never know how someone is going to react to a question like that. They can get quite defensive.

But you won't know unless you ask.

You need to take into account that it may not have anything to do with you.
Since you're no longer work partners, she may have started seeing someone and feel too guilty to let you become aware of it, if she felt something for you before.

In any case, you would have to figure out a way to ask her without making her feel uncomfortable, and since me and PG don't know her, that's all you, broseph.

her friends didn't tell me anything about her having someone else. they even tease me sometimes when she's not around.
we're still also working together as interns.
we actually just met 3 weeks ago.

I don't know her, but I still think you should ask her. Or ask her why it feels as if she's growing a bit distant.

hmmm....okay. i'll do that. pinkie232, i need to borrow your balls for a day.

even then.. she's clearly keeping something secret.
until (IF) you get her to explain herself, give her the benefit of the doubt that it may not be directly be anything you have done or could have prevented.
ok?
maybe she's scared; there's a lot of maybes in the range of human experience that could lead to someone who was friendly and kind to you, changing her demeanor and deciding to avoid you.

if you ask her and let on any assumption that it's about you, that will just about definitely piss her off.
i only say this because i hope that you'll find the right words, not because i think that you're self centered.

*hug*

thanks exa. that sure will help me not make a fool of myself or hurt someone i like.
though based on what you said. i think i'd try to talk to her again normally first.

however bringing that question up...would be really hard. i'll try my best. thanks to you all.

I'm not sure if it will definitely piss her off. I've asked people it before and have had them just laugh and say no. But the only person who really knows how she'll possibly react is Narayan. She may not be keeping anything a secret. She may just be tired or shy.

The point is, he won't know until he asks. Well, unless she tells him without him asking. Or ask him if he's the one avoiding her.

Maybe ask her out to eat and then ask her about how she's been so quiet or distant, Na?

Here, I'll go kick a ton of guys in the balls for you and bring the balls back to you.

Will that make you feel better?

yah thanks PG!
well gotta leave now, i have to be early tomorrow.

yeah PG, piss off is the wrong term for what i really meant.
what i meant is, put her on the offensive/defensive in the sense she may not be honest when she might've been if it was handled more delicately.