I normally don't ask for advice on the internet, but I REALLY need help on this one. I've never been more unsure about what to do. Let me explain my situation first:
My name is James; this is no secret. I like a girl- we'll call her Kristen for the sake of privacy. A few things to know to make the question work. One, Although not on the internet, I am supposedly "hilarious" in real life around my friends. Two, I'm not the most attractive person in the world, but I like to think I have a generally good personality and am like a three and a half on the scale. Three, it's quite possible I have been friend-zoned; if this is the case, it had to have been recently.
Okay, here goes.
Me and Kristen have known each other for six months now. What started out as a simple "hello" blossomed into a very interesting relationship. About five months ago, me and Kristen were placed into the same gym class. I was bored, recognized she was in my math, had talked to her four or five times (little conversations like "how are you" and her being put in my math group) and decided that she was better than no one to talk to. After three weeks of talking, we could say that we were decent friends. Not long after that, we began talking more and more. After about a month and a half, she says I'm in her close group of friends.
Everytime we talk, it's always something funny/flirty from me, and someing generally flirty back from her. We begin to talk all the time: in math, in gym, in the halls, at lunch, at the lockers, everywhere. After about two months, she considers me one of her "best friends" and wants to hang sometime (for the record, it's not a very serious best friend thing, but if you were to ask her, she would definetly consider saying me).
Not to long ago, she began to date someone. Not to make things worse, but he's one of my best friends; yikes!
Kristen has a friend- we'll call her Jenna. Jenna has a friend too, but we'll call her Autumn.
I've been talking with Jenna for a while now. I met Kristen and Jenna about the same time, but I kept up with Jenna, and we're great friends now. I also hang out with Autumn quite a bit, since she lives near me, and she hangs with Jenna everyday. We were talking one day and the subject of your crush comes up. They could tell that I liked Kristen (I though it was pretty obvious myself...) and said that they think she likes me back, but that she [Kristen] was unsure of the situation. This obviously got me very excited, but that's beside the point.
After a long talk with her relatives, she got her texting somewhat back. She can't text everyone all the time, but she decided I was worthy enough to text (awesome!). She told me that she wants to hang out with me in a few months all the time. So...
Things have been progrossivly moving along, but I'm unsure of everything. What happens if they break-up? Is it okay for me to make a move? Does she like me? Is Jenna a reputable source?
Thanks in Advance tempers- I really need your help on this one.
--BloodWolfJW
My name is James; this is no secret. I like a girl- we'll call her Kristen for the sake of privacy. A few things to know to make the question work. One, Although not on the internet, I am supposedly "hilarious" in real life around my friends. Two, I'm not the most attractive person in the world, but I like to think I have a generally good personality and am like a three and a half on the scale. Three, it's quite possible I have been friend-zoned; if this is the case, it had to have been recently.
Okay, here goes.
Me and Kristen have known each other for six months now. What started out as a simple "hello" blossomed into a very interesting relationship. About five months ago, me and Kristen were placed into the same gym class. I was bored, recognized she was in my math, had talked to her four or five times (little conversations like "how are you" and her being put in my math group) and decided that she was better than no one to talk to. After three weeks of talking, we could say that we were decent friends. Not long after that, we began talking more and more. After about a month and a half, she says I'm in her close group of friends.
Everytime we talk, it's always something funny/flirty from me, and someing generally flirty back from her. We begin to talk all the time: in math, in gym, in the halls, at lunch, at the lockers, everywhere. After about two months, she considers me one of her "best friends" and wants to hang sometime (for the record, it's not a very serious best friend thing, but if you were to ask her, she would definetly consider saying me).
Not to long ago, she began to date someone. Not to make things worse, but he's one of my best friends; yikes!
Kristen has a friend- we'll call her Jenna. Jenna has a friend too, but we'll call her Autumn.
I've been talking with Jenna for a while now. I met Kristen and Jenna about the same time, but I kept up with Jenna, and we're great friends now. I also hang out with Autumn quite a bit, since she lives near me, and she hangs with Jenna everyday. We were talking one day and the subject of your crush comes up. They could tell that I liked Kristen (I though it was pretty obvious myself...) and said that they think she likes me back, but that she [Kristen] was unsure of the situation. This obviously got me very excited, but that's beside the point.
After a long talk with her relatives, she got her texting somewhat back. She can't text everyone all the time, but she decided I was worthy enough to text (awesome!). She told me that she wants to hang out with me in a few months all the time. So...
Things have been progrossivly moving along, but I'm unsure of everything. What happens if they break-up? Is it okay for me to make a move? Does she like me? Is Jenna a reputable source?
Thanks in Advance tempers- I really need your help on this one.
--BloodWolfJW
