Friend "dating" an older lady...

To the point!

-> He's(Manuel) 23. She's(?..dont know her name, lets call her Suzy) 35 with 3 kiddos(one is like 15). I get annoyed with Manuel cause he's just that guy that tells anyone about his goals and etc. I dont mind but then it just gets annoying. (i dont tell him that cause i think he might get hurt..but i will soon if he continues just a tad bit more). Sooo...he like told me about this "milf" (ehhh!) that he met. He pretty much took her out to eat once cause Suzy insisted..but she really want to talk about some type of oils and creams for natural healthy body stuff. Manuel pretty much said to her "well i just want to do you". Suzy said she wasn't that type of lady.

After that, Manuel just stopped talking to her. Suzy kept on texting him about the meetings for products. then like, after awhile Manuel recieved a text saying "who is this?" and he replied. the unknown person was actually the daughter of Suzy. Daughter made it clear "if you just want my mom for -insert obvious reason here- then just stay away!".

a week later and some days, Suzy asked Manuel she wanted to go have dinner for her birthday(Today!). Odd. Why not with her kids or family members?
So Manuel pretty much said yeah and is taking her out in a few hours to some Italian restaurant.
Manuel keeps calling her MILF(which is lame! but guys are guys(not all)).
I said "if your just trying to get in bed with her...then whatever"
he replied "well..im just trying to make a friend. if she wants to do it..cool. if not oh well..at least i have a new friend."

He told me all this. ;P

Sooo..i dunno what to think. I mean..i guess it's ok. who am i to say things? xD
Any thoughts?

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You're a girl, you're allowed to slap him for being a dumbass y'know.

Doooesn't really matter if you expect it to do anything or not >_>
 
I already told him...but he won't listen. He will just say that i am "jealous".
 
[quote name='clarky' timestamp='1343266500'] sounds like a rolling stone....what is one to do huh.... [/quote]

I bet he has some moves like Jagger.
 
[quote name='Chikaku-chan' timestamp='1343270850'] Stay out of his business? [/quote]

No way. I'm soooo going to get in his way. -.-

Never said i was gonna interfere.
 
Sorry, read that wrong then.
Consider him as a regular male with a healthy sex drive.
While you sit there thinking that, he will be halfway ready from here to there.
This comment was really here nor there but I hope this makes somewhat of the situation totally readable
 
she wants to be friend with the lady and he still calls her milf.
she could be milf but i'd call her by her name and not repeatedly announce her as a milf.

i'm a bit disgusted.
 
[quote name='Narayan' timestamp='1343277594'] she wants to be friend with the lady and he still calls her milf. she could be milf but i'd call her by her name and not repeatedly announce her as a milf. i'm a bit disgusted. [/quote]

Agreed. It sounds like he refers to her as an object than a person when he mentions her as "milf", and that is pretty disgusting. Why must people act that way?

I still think Suzy has attachment issues with trying to contact him when he wasn't interested the first time, so there's problems on both sides imo.
 
[quote name='Costello' timestamp='1343290210'] so Yumi do you like manuel? i think that is the key to this whole story :P [/quote]
No. ^_^
 
[quote name='Yumi' timestamp='1343262176'] I already told him...but he won't listen. He will just say that i am "jealous". [/quote]

Sounds like you are
 
[quote name='Pleng' timestamp='1343302874'] [quote name='Yumi' timestamp='1343262176'] I already told him...but he won't listen. He will just say that i am "jealous". [/quote] Sounds like you are [/quote]

I don't think Yumi's into MILFs, guy.
 
[quote name='Hells Malice' timestamp='1343305199'] [quote name='Pleng' timestamp='1343302874'] [quote name='Yumi' timestamp='1343262176'] I already told him...but he won't listen. He will just say that i am "jealous". [/quote] Sounds like you are [/quote] I don't think Yumi's into MILFs, guy. [/quote]

Yes because that's totally what we're all referring to....
 
[quote name='Yumi' timestamp='1343301828'] [quote name='Costello' timestamp='1343290210'] so Yumi do you like manuel? i think that is the key to this whole story :P [/quote] No. ^_^ [/quote]
then why do you care so much ? :P
 
I was going to say somehting completely different... but unless you want to be his girlfriend then who he tries to do is none of your business and even then.... you better start telling him you want to be his girlfriend if that is the case.

If you already are his girlfriend find another guy who can respect your feelings more. if you guys are in an open relationship and you are his girlfriend there is still supposed to be some give and take on who does who.

either way friend wise if you don't like him dating older women all you can do is say so. Again cause it really isn't any of your business.
35 isn't really that old. if you were talking 50 and up... meh...

oh let your friend know that older also doesn't necessarily mean better. also try to remember that everyone has different tastes just because you don't see the attraction doesn't mean that it isn't there.
 
[quote name='Pleng' timestamp='1343313275'] [quote name='Hells Malice' timestamp='1343305199'] [quote name='Pleng' timestamp='1343302874'] [quote name='Yumi' timestamp='1343262176'] I already told him...but he won't listen. He will just say that i am "jealous". [/quote] Sounds like you are [/quote] I don't think Yumi's into MILFs, guy. [/quote] Yes because that's totally what we're all referring to.... [/quote]

Totally is. I can't see anything you could mean, brah.
 
[quote name='Costello' timestamp='1343314595'] [quote name='Yumi' timestamp='1343301828'] [quote name='Costello' timestamp='1343290210'] so Yumi do you like manuel? i think that is the key to this whole story :P [/quote] No. ^_^ [/quote]then why do you care so much ? :P [/quote]

I don't...i just wanted to know what people thought of this....-sigh- I guess it's the same thing..but opinions is all i wanted. ;-;


[quote name='rastsan' timestamp='1343314973'] I was going to say somehting completely different... but unless you want to be his girlfriend then who he tries to do is none of your business and even then.... you better start telling him you want to be his girlfriend if that is the case. If you already are his girlfriend find another guy who can respect your feelings more. if you guys are in an open relationship and you are his girlfriend there is still supposed to be some give and take on who does who. either way friend wise if you don't like him dating older women all you can do is say so. Again cause it really isn't any of your business. 35 isn't really that old. if you were talking 50 and up... meh... oh let your friend know that older also doesn't necessarily mean better. also try to remember that everyone has different tastes just because you don't see the attraction doesn't mean that it isn't there. [/quote]

I've already broken up with a guy and it still stings. I never said i liked him dating older women.
Why so serious? ^_^
but yes, you are correct...it's none of my business. I agree with you.
 
but did you tell him that you don't like the idea of him trying to do her?
if you want the serious answer well that is a phone call away. pm me if you really want the serious answer.

Oh just by bringing it up here AND asking for opinions you made it not only your business but OUR business as well.

sounds serious but not really.
 

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