Hii everyone! It's been forever since my last blog. Also I have disappeared into the real world for a long time. I come every now and then. Busy with school and work and life in general.
Anyways, I'm here to blog about a good friend that I know, her name is Leticia, or Lilly for short. I've known her for about 2 years now, or about to be 2 years. She is smart and very ambitious. Always like to learn new things, very much into history. She is interesting which is why I became friends with her. But although I find her interesting, she sometimes just talks too much about herself. She likes to just talk about her daily activities.
For example, she likes to talk about her accomplishments, goals, places she is going to visit soon, her current activities, her boyfriends, etc. But this is constantly. Like either in text, over the phone, or when we meet up to hang out. Sometimes i ignore her for this. I know it's bad but ughhhh...
If a week passes and we haven't spoke, she will send a message saying stuff like:
"Hey Eli, I've gotten so much done this week. I went hiking and swimming. I also talked to my bf through webcam and we watched movies together. i'm thinking of taking a French class and Psychology class. I've read about Japanese culture and learned this. I will be going over there next year. We should hang out soon, I have lots to talk about. What have you done? How is life?"
Sure I like to hear about her but this is usually like every week/month for the past 2 years. I get overwhelmed with her lots of times. Maybe because I am not as active as she is.
Usually she expects feedback on her stuff. I give it to her. I say stuff like:
"Hey Lilly, that is awesome. Glad to hear about your hiking and swimming. nice to know you had fun with your bf. Also I think it's a great idea that you want to take those classes and want to go to Japan. I have just been taking my daily walks and been studying for my finals. I learned how to cook lasagna and have been reading a book called "Aztec". Yeah we should hang out next week!"
BUT the problem is here, she likes me giving her feedback but she doesn't give me any or sometimes she will just say "Cool." and she will continue on about her BF, her Hiking, her, future planning of going to Japan, etc.
So, yeah...I don't know. i don't know the word for how she is. Like i said, she's friendly and all, but sometimes just...too braggy about herself and her stuff but when I bring up my own things, she just nods and gives little feedback. She's an open book while I am more of a closed one. Sure I like to talk about myself but not THAT much.
So yeah, sorry for the long blog. if anyone reads it that is. Lol
Have a nice day!
Anyways, I'm here to blog about a good friend that I know, her name is Leticia, or Lilly for short. I've known her for about 2 years now, or about to be 2 years. She is smart and very ambitious. Always like to learn new things, very much into history. She is interesting which is why I became friends with her. But although I find her interesting, she sometimes just talks too much about herself. She likes to just talk about her daily activities.
For example, she likes to talk about her accomplishments, goals, places she is going to visit soon, her current activities, her boyfriends, etc. But this is constantly. Like either in text, over the phone, or when we meet up to hang out. Sometimes i ignore her for this. I know it's bad but ughhhh...
If a week passes and we haven't spoke, she will send a message saying stuff like:
"Hey Eli, I've gotten so much done this week. I went hiking and swimming. I also talked to my bf through webcam and we watched movies together. i'm thinking of taking a French class and Psychology class. I've read about Japanese culture and learned this. I will be going over there next year. We should hang out soon, I have lots to talk about. What have you done? How is life?"
Sure I like to hear about her but this is usually like every week/month for the past 2 years. I get overwhelmed with her lots of times. Maybe because I am not as active as she is.
Usually she expects feedback on her stuff. I give it to her. I say stuff like:
"Hey Lilly, that is awesome. Glad to hear about your hiking and swimming. nice to know you had fun with your bf. Also I think it's a great idea that you want to take those classes and want to go to Japan. I have just been taking my daily walks and been studying for my finals. I learned how to cook lasagna and have been reading a book called "Aztec". Yeah we should hang out next week!"
BUT the problem is here, she likes me giving her feedback but she doesn't give me any or sometimes she will just say "Cool." and she will continue on about her BF, her Hiking, her, future planning of going to Japan, etc.
So, yeah...I don't know. i don't know the word for how she is. Like i said, she's friendly and all, but sometimes just...too braggy about herself and her stuff but when I bring up my own things, she just nods and gives little feedback. She's an open book while I am more of a closed one. Sure I like to talk about myself but not THAT much.
So yeah, sorry for the long blog. if anyone reads it that is. Lol
Have a nice day!
