What now?

Hey guys, I don't know who I can tell this.. so I try it here.

First of all, my love to other girls is really heavy. I only had relationships with girls who are weak in sociality. So they are lonely and its easier for me to begin a relationship with them without any problems with ex-boyfriends and so on. But after they got experience about the sociality because of me, they'll change their character and starting to leave me. Today, it's the third time that I got this situation. This relationship took about 7 Months and it was a long-distance relationship but we met after some months or weeks because it was not really cheap for us to see us every weekend. Now I'm alone again and don't know what to do. Yes, I'm in a education and I'm for the education on a professional school at the moment. So, I'm not staying at home to fall in despair but it doesn't really help me. I want to starting to find a girl here in my near but I don't know how to start a talk with a nice looking girl. In the time where I going to the professional school, My eyes falls to a special girl in the train and she's looking me too very often and my heart is starting beating very hard and fast. But I don't know if she had interest in me and so I'm really shy to talk to her if she want my mobile number. I hope, someone can understand and help me a little bit about this :/ Btw I'm 23 yrs old and working as a trainee at ford if someone starts to ask me

Thank you for your answers :)

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tbh, you're asking for a dating advice on a forum overfilled with lonely sausages and girls.

My advice would be, (If you ever decide to) just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. Don't jump too quickly into "Hey, I just meet you so uh... want2fuk2night?".

(Comes from a lonely 14 y/o xoxo)
 
That seems a little predatory, but welcome to 2017. Maybe your own insecurities are holding you back? Your best bet might be to ask her to go to a very public place without the expectation it's even close to a date. You might find out she has children, a boyfriend, or no interest in men.

I'd say, try online dating to meet people in your area. Even if it takes you another six years, it'll be better than making a terrible mistake.
 
@Acrux so should I look to her until she is looking back to me and smile to her and see what happens? Oh man thats a little bit difficult for me ^^
 
You can always just start a conversation, remember as long that you talk nice and with respect, there's a good chance something good comes out from it :)
 
@Justin20020 , im sure staring would look creepy. Just glance at her every once in awhile and if by chance you meet eyes smile and then look away
 
Glancing until you (maybe) get eye contact is futile. Especially if it's a nice girl, she may be smiling just to be friendly. Walk up to her: "This is kind of awkward for me, but if you aren't taken, would you like to hang out some time?"

Odds are, even if she isn't interested, she'll be nice about it. It's the law of averages. Sometimes it takes many "no's" but eventually you will get a yes.

Also, don't be a timid pussy. Some (a lot) females will sense it and try to be controlling. Be direct, and if you are turned down, at least ACT like it doesn't bother you. Good luck.
 
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Thats true but saying that might make it seem like he says that to lots of girls. it may look arrogant too. Just give her hints then make a move
 
I maybe alone here, but I think becoming a friend to someone first is the best thing you can do. Don't pressure her, don't suggest anything, and start out with group activities with others. As a friendship grows, it may lead into a full relationship. And if nothing comes of it, then you still have a really good friend to talk to
 
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