Common Courtesy

On November 1st, 2015, I joined GBAtemp with hopes of being that "change" that everybody always wanted to be in the world. I came in, trying to learn as much as I can, but I couldn't. Nobody would ever "waste" their time trying to explain to me things that I previously didn't understand. In fact, I can probably list the amount of people I can rely on to help me now on one hand.
This is my first post.
Now, @VinsCool is one of the few that I can count on to assist me and others without being biting. Back then, I had just gotten into homebrew on the 3DS. I had access to the homebrew launcher by some miraculous YouTube exploit I still don't even understand, and life was good. Then I started researching Custom Firmware. I am sure that what interested me in CFW (piracy) interested many others. I came in with the knowledge of an extreme noob, yet Vinny was still willing to accept me. If I didn't get a response, I can't be sure I would still be on the forums, with such great friends now.

I look at the forums today, and I am just extremely disappointed. Everywhere I look, people are complaining about the lack of knowledge these new users have, yet nobody is doing anything. They are merely tolerating them, if you can even say that. I mean, the most recent thing to complain about hasn't even happened yet: the ban threads from Pokemon USUM. Instead of creating a FAQ thread that covers everything about the ban waves (which I happen to be working on in another tab because I don't want to see the responses to those threads), people are preparing their mindset to be negative. This bothers me, because people just don't care, nor do they want to care.

The next thing I notice isn't just in GBAtemp, but society as a whole. Hardly anybody will accept others opinions. If you disagree with somebody, then that other person will do everything in their power to argue with you instead of just walking away. This is my problem with "discussions". More often than not, they turn to a contest to see who can insult the other to the point where they don't even cover the original topic anymore.

Nobody cares, and they live their life acting as if these "nuisances" don't even exist, or if they do then they don't affect them.

"Tolerance and apathy are the virtues of a dying society." - Aristotle
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It's definitely not a new phenomenon, as that general snark has existed on the internet for ages. But I will agree that in more recent years, there's quite a bit more argumentative situations on websites than there was before, at least, it sure seems that way. Of course, sometimes it's just best to focus on the helpful people, rather than the unhelpful ones. If you're looking for banwave info, all I can offer is this, which already almost goes beyond what I understand about the 3DS.
 
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Hang in there bro, you are not alone, lots of people get ignored or this site for no reason. What problems are you having that you need help with, I can't guarantee I can help, But I will try.
 
There's an input box with a magnifying glass and the default text 'search' contained inside it. People seem to often neglect it.

The majority of 'new users' don't start their threads declaring that they searched and couldn't find any relevant information, they begin with "HOW DO I GET FREE GAMES?" or "THIS TRIVIAL PROBLEM WITH A MILLION DOCUMENTED FIXES HAS AFFLICTED ME, SOLVE IT. NOW".
 
People. It's pretty hard to understand situations when you don't have a connection with someone, but that's people.

On one hand you could look at it like this: people usually need an example to learn; if common courtesy becomes less common, there are less examples to learn from.

On the other hand, you can't really blame people when you think about exponentials. Fifty people acting like jerks can become Ninety people acting like jerks and then the situation makes that infamous curve.

You can only do so much and only for so long before you become part of the problem intentionally or unintentionally. It's almost like that bit about the guy who didn't drink the water from the well because the townsfolk were crazed, but he eventually did, and joined the others in madness.

People.
 
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dude i can't believe this person who just started learning about {thing} doesn't know everything about it yet!!! what a fucking dumbass lol
 
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More like uncommon courtesy (worst joke of my life, lol). For real though, I feel what you're putting down, but in my experience (not to try to override your experience), I've found that courteous and helpful people tend to be the quiet majority while the angry minority trends ruins it for everyone. I would advise to just ignore the bitter people, but I know all too well just how difficult that can be. Personally, I just try to treat everyone one with love and respect unless they give me a reason to treat them otherwise.
 
I'll always try to help anywhere I can, unless it involves things I don't use... like Mac OS or iOS.
 
I still maintain the 3ds section was so bad due to the twin issue of no games and free modding. One or the other you can deal with but together it is not good. Having no games meant I steered clear.

Anyway I tend to find it easier to answer the question for the **th time than lambaste them for not knowing. With that said some people could stand to learn both the new york times rule and the "if you are going to post then does it make the world a better place?" rule.
 
Oh, and I, despite what you did a year ago, who shrugged it off and still treated you like a person, gets nothing!?

Thank you.
 
I try to be helpful when I can. But I have limited knowledge. I'm learning as I go
 
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@DinohScene I just didn't list your name as one of the people, like I didn't do for the others. VinsCool just happened to be the example because he was the first person to ever respond to me.

If you guys need a list right off the top of my head, the top 3 I can think of, they would probably go: VinsCool, DinohScene, and Lillith Valentine (idk if i spelled that right).

I will admit I have made mistakes. A lot of them from when I was browsing the internet with no real purpose and then getting heated, or with other people. One of them not even two months after I joined, and one round about 1 year ago, which I believe is the one Dinoh is referencing.
 
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