Let me be mad for my friend for a minute.

Warning: really bitter thoughts up ahead.

GAH, have I got a story for you folks today. I have a friend. Lets call her Clara. She is 14 years old, super talented for a 14 year old, and acts older than her age (not in a bad way). She goes to my theater and we are good friends. There is another girl who went to my theater. Let's call her Patrice. She is 17 years old. She now lives in New York City.

Last summer, Clara got a role that Patrice wanted. Patrice, being a drama queen, is not happy. Patrice is butthurt but doesn't do anything particulary bad aside from a few snarky comments. Later, Patrice moves from Texas to New York.

A few months pass, and Patrice, completely out of the blue, texts Clara paragraph after paragraph of bullcrap just dragging her across the ground. I don't have the full text message but it was at least three pages worth of crap (double spaced, size 11, Times New Roman). She talks about how Clara is fake, annoying, untalented, worthless, and undeserving of friends. She goes on to THREATEN TO TELL THE AUTHORITIES AT OUR COMMUNITY THEATER THAT CLARA IS HARASSING HER. At this point I'm like, "This girl is absolutely crazy and needs help." This 14 YEAR OLD GIRL gets bullied like I've never seen before. She is clearly very upset. My sister, being a shockingly wise girl. Helps Clara feel better, and aids in composing a response that does not retaliate too much but tells Patrice how she is wrong. Patrice then goes on her private Twitter, and posts the entire text conversation. Her caption called her a "petty @** b****" and called the response "weak" and praised herself for "not cussing once." She posts all of this believing that she is in the right and has done nothing wrong (keep in mind that literally no one else has problems with Clara). Clara heard about this tweet and is even more upset. My sister has a word with Patrice, but it otherwise is left alone as not to cause trouble. Clara blocks Patrice on all forms of social media. Guess what? She forgot to block Patrick's spam account on Instagram. Today, one of my friends posted one of those stupid "like this picture and I'll send you a name. You have to give a TBH about this person." Patrice likes the picture and guess who she gets? Clara. She says "backstabber, gets away with pretty much anything, praised wayyyy too much for being talented. I like their hair." Patrice also put the role that she didn't get (Kathy from Singing in the Rain) on her resume in New York City which is a boldface lie. If I had different morals, that girl would probably be dead. Anyway, sorry about this. I'm just super duper pissed.
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Well yeah u can be mad, but it's also true that it's not of your bussiness. You should let it be, even if you deserve being mad.
 
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Sure it's fine to be mad at your friends sometimes. I have friends that I get mad at but we make up afterwards. But looking at this situation it seems Patrice is just jealous at Clara for getting the role she wanted and it has turned into a bullying/ harassing situation. If you feel comfortable mediating then I would try it to bring this hostility between friends to a closure face to face (not on social media). But if not I would support Clara to make sure she isn't upset and sad over such hostility and ignore Patrice. It's not worth the trouble giving in to Patrice since it looks like Clara has a promising future. As for Patrice, she needs to move on and stop holding a grudge on such a petty thing. It's part of life. You win and lose sometimes. Heck maybe in the future Patrice might even get another opportunity. But as of now it's going to get Patrice no where. Up to you if you wanna take a stranger's advice (XD) but I hope you and your friends the best and hope things ends up the best for you guys.
 
@TsUnDeReAznGuY That's some pretty good advice. Its not worth mediating because we are on opposite ends of America, but you're absolutely right.
 
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Guess what kids? Patrice is back today and since I'm not allowed to tell people I know, I'll tell strangers on the internet. Someone different played the same Instagram game
Patrice got Clara's name again and here's the result.
"plays too many games... Acts
llke an angl but really is scheming their
way through life. worshipped wayyyy too
much. Ruined a big chunk of my life.
changed like everyone's view of me for
the worst and it honestly makes me sad
to see how fake things can be with this
person while everyone just believes it.
helped me weed through all my bad
friends by taking them away from me.
really just don't wanna be fake but I feel
like everything is with this person." Why are people so mean and ugly to other people?
 
>Why are people so mean and ugly to other people?

Because welcome to society today. All humans, no humanity.
 
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She should just block her and move on. For the love of god they are in two different states. People sure love their drama.
 
@CallmeBerto That's the problem. She did block her but since the harassment is inderect, it still gets to her. Clara hasn't done anything to provoke more problems. She didn't even reply to the comment.
 

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