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Back in August of this year I accepted that I'm actually Transgender. I've slowly been coming out to friends and family since then and so far everyone has been accepting thankfully. Even my boyfriend is okay with it. I identify as Gender Fluid, my pronouns are whatever he/she/they and I prefer the nick name I've always had anyways Chris, as its gender neutral anyways. I know that posting this on here is putting myself at risk for receiving a lot of flack, but after seeing other's do the same here I've decided that if other's can do it, than so can I. My LGBT therapist wants me to write/journal to help ease my Gender Dysphoria (just to clarify being transgender is NOT a mental illness), but the emotional distress experienced by someone who's body doesn't match how they feel inside CAN be severe enough to be considered a mental illness. I'm one of those people who actually suffer from Gender Dysphoria. I'm sure my therapist (for safety reasons) probably didn't mean for me to be writing about this publicly online but I feel its something I have to do to really get it off my chest.

For anybody who disagrees with the "transgender lifestyle" or however you want to address it, I'm all for an intellectual debate on the issue but if you're going to just troll or resort to profanity and straight up nasty bigotry then don't waste your time typing a response here. This is something I've been secretly struggling with for all 30 years of my life and I'm finally coming to terms with it and dealing with it. I don't need anybody's destructive criticism, I provide enough of that to myself, thanks.....
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@TeamScriptKiddies Congratulations on coming out. I've been there myself and it's hard, often harder than anything and at the same time the most liberating thing you can do. Own it, now and forever. You are perfect, never forget that. Do the things that make you happiest.

To the people that have an issue with the way a person Is; If you can't accept a person for how they are you need to grow the hell up. This isn't about you. Gender is not simply a two way street because people aren't just either A or B in ANYTHING let alone something as complicated as the entirety of a a persons Self.
 
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If it's hard to accept oneself it is time to reflect on one's life to see what can be done to attain one's dream version of themselves if that makes sense. I believe deep down people's conscience tells them that they aren't on the right path,working on the self will make one feel better. For example achieving your goals,dreams,romantic interest,ect. It's a long journey that I think many people are too afraid to go on. In order to accept yourself you have to be happy with the person you are,changing requires introspective of one's weaknesses and desires. Once one accepts their weaknesses as they are and attain their desires the rest should fall into place.
 
@Maluma this is so obviously the exact thing that will make them happy and yet people like you are the reason they've been afraid of coming out. Sod off
 
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Pfffff where the actual fuck did you read that? I sympathise with the members of the Islamic religion, as they catch a lot of untoward hate, but I myself am agnostic

You know what they say about assuming things, eh?
 
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Be who you want. You want to talk to someone with a real mental illness, talk to someone like me. There's both upsides and downsides to being a Psychopath - My lack of empathy also means that I literally can't care about what people do with themselves. You want to be transgender, I don't see why anyone would or should have a problem. I have troubles understanding why people would have any problem with someone else being gay/straight/trans or something else.

Here's the moral dilemma - there isn't one. It doesn't enter into a moral sphere - It's not something that can be considered right or wrong because it isn't going away, no matter how you classify it. I'm a human being - is that right or wrong? Being gay or trans is the same thing - you cannot judge the way someone is born as right or wrong.
 
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NUU HO CAN U BEE SUCH PSACHOPATH and dun hav AAANEE empathy bay otharz ;O;
and if UR LIL CHILD WANTU DELETE HIMSEWF? WAT U GUNA DU?
 
soo... what did mal's comment say? I assume he thought you were muslim, but was there anything else?
 
@BlueFox gui Seriously, grow up. Of all places it could even potentially be acceptable to shitpost on this site, this isn't even on the list, let alone the bottom of it

Edit: @HamBone41801 he said something along the lines of "I read somewhere you were Muslim, and that's a pretty conservative religion so you're a traitor and fishing for likes and I don't understand how people like you exist"

Paraphrased, of course
 
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@BlueFox gui I can tell you're just screwing around, doesn't bother me any.

Thanks everyone who's been supportive!

For some of the nay sayers who misconstrued my post as somehow just being 'trendy' or 'pushing my agenda down your throat' both of those assumptions aren't even logical.

I chose to make this information known as it's part of the healing process for me. Why would I make up a false story about myself that's simply opening a can of worms when it comes to discrimination and harassment? It just doesn't even make any sense.

I'm expressing this because it's how I truly feel, take it or leave it. And for those of you who have intentionally been nasty and childish in regards to this whole thing, just no that your efforts are fruitless, as I don't take things like that personally online .

If i 've never actually met you face to face, do you really think I'm going to be offended by you hiding behind your keyboard trolling away? I'm more likely to win the lottery than to let your stupidity effect me lol.
 
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