RIP rat friendship 2019-2019.

I adopted two pet rats about a month ago from the feeder bin at my local pet store. Rats are prey animals so you really have to work hard at developing trust, however, they are pretty smart and VERY food motivated so it's not an impossible goal with a little bit of patience and time.

It was around week 3 of bringing them home when this story starts. They had just started learning to trust me. They were running around the room when I let them out, coming back to me for treats, letting me give them head scratches -- all the good stuff.

And then my university had a week-ish long vacation so I left my apartment to go visit my parents for a few days. I gave the ratties plenty of food and water and left the heat on.

"Three or four days won't make them forget that I'm a friend," I thought.
"I'll bring lots of yummy treats and then they'll love me again," I thought.
"I'm basically their adoptive rat mom how could they forsake me," I thought.

Fast forward. I've been back with them for a week now and they're still acting like I'm trying to eat them. They'll take marshmallows from my hand but ONLY because it's marshmallows. Sugar is as addictive as cocaine to humans, and rats are just small furry victimized humans with trust issues. So basically the only way I can get them to come out of their nests and approach me is through some kind of pure uncut sugar-stuffs.

If my rats had a facebook page their latest update would probably be something like "Friendship with cauliquackers ended. Marshmallows and darkness are my best friends now."

Pls rats, why won't u love me.
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Can you come to my house and get my rats from under the house? They are in need of a new home and do not yet know love. They are free and you can take the whole family. They like insulation very much and don’t leave a sink full of dirty dishes.
 
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I hope the rats start loving you back soon. Are their memories really so short lived they'd forget you in just 3 days?
 
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I’ll never forget the one time I tried for weeks to get this stray cat to like me. Giving it turkey and food and treats and everything. Then it started allowing me to pet it, but one horrible day, I sneezed, and that just was NOT ok. The cat never trusted me again after I quietly sneezed next to it.

Luckily you have the power of marshmallows so hopefully you can trade sugar for more permanent rat friendship after a while :P
 
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The rats I adopted that were still young became trusting more quickly than the other ones that were already full grown that took a bit more time and were panicking a bit on the first few days but started to be more trusting after a bit more time as well.
If you already have a spacious cage with enough places to hide and enough to keep them busy, it's only a matter of time until they open up.
My rats enjoy my presence when they can use me to explore the environment or when I give them food but sadly none of them actually seem to enjoy head scratches or similar, it seems to depend on the type of rat so it's not your fault if they never get to like that.
 
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@Wuigi I got them kind of young, but I think it might have been still too late in their life cycle. Really hoping that another few days of food bribery will make them open up some more.
 
And on the other side of the coin, my roommates and I had to remove a rat from our apartment literally just now. Not fun.
 
@cauliquackers The full grown rats trust me the same than the adolescent rats I adopted, so age is not that important, only at the start it makes a difference imo.
 
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