Girlfriend problems :\

Okay amm.. im 15 , and im kinda new to the all girlfriend thinganyway I just got a girl who I like and she likes me , were un-officialy boyfriend and girlfriend , but we sat together for a long time huging each other.

anyway.. I don't really know what to do , except the obvious of dating her and i'd like some tips. A friend of mine told me that I shouldn't show my love to her too much and spoil her.. I should be a more interesting person or she'll be bored of me and dump me eventually - Could you(the internet guyz) tell me if I should do listen to him bout it?

AND DONT FORGET besides the question to add some tips =P



I really do appriciate your help.

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Have a nice body...chicks dig guise with nice bods. Not like overdoing, just normal, you don't want to be too skinny...thats unnattractive.
 
Here's some advice, don't listen to advice...(wait...oh I'll figure it out later).
You're only 15, do what the hell you want to do. Stop being so panicky and just chill out. If she doesn't like you (or thinks you're boring) that's her problem...I know it's a bit clichey but there's plenty more fish in the sea.
 
[quote name='Guild McCommunist' post='2297280' date='Oct 2 2009, 01:50 AM']If anyone's wondering, I've made a personal decision to not date until college. I'm not seeing the point of having some fake and pukey relationship with some purely on the basis of "why the hell not?" I'm already happy as I am and there's nothing in my life that would be better by having some nagging girlfriend storming up fake drama and whining better. Not to mention I'm also an immense douchebag and doubt I could put up with all the crap without saying something like "wow, you're boring" or "you're really a gigantic douchebag with people".[/quote]

You can have a real relationship, and be in 10th,11th,12th grade...you just need to find the right girl.


Be Obnoxious. Girls don't like the silent type. I walk around, and jump in girls faces, and be like "I think your cute", and it works on so many leves

Also wear eyeliner, if it looks good on you. It works for me.
 
[quote name='Eternal Myst' post='2301418' date='Oct 3 2009, 07:55 PM']Also wear eyeliner, if it looks good on you. It works for me.[/quote]

that scares me :D I only used eyeliner once in my life...and this was on a zombiewalk
 
Keep it cool, make her like you for what you are, and basically just don't upset her, i mean don't be a fool. Make sure what your saying doesn't sound weird, and don't bore her. Make her laugh, can't really help you here depends on the girl, and go out with her; and even if she does dump you your still 15, there are a lot out there...trust me.
 
[quote name='Eternal Myst' post='2301418' date='Oct 4 2009, 01:55 AM']Be Obnoxious. Girls don't like the silent type. I walk around, and jump in girls faces, and be like "I think your cute", and it works on so many leves

Also wear eyeliner, if it looks good on you. It works for me.[/quote]

NO. Do NOT be obnoxious.
>> You're the kind of guy we end up laughing ABOUT behind your back, yo. Sure, some like fun guys but DO NOT BE OBNOXIOUS.
 
[quote name='ragingchaosgod' post='2302871' date='Oct 4 2009, 07:18 AM'][quote name='Eternal Myst' post='2301418' date='Oct 4 2009, 01:55 AM']Be Obnoxious. Girls don't like the silent type. I walk around, and jump in girls faces, and be like "I think your cute", and it works on so many leves

Also wear eyeliner, if it looks good on you. It works for me.[/quote]

NO. Do NOT be obnoxious.
>> You're the kind of guy we end up laughing ABOUT behind your back, yo. Sure, some like fun guys but DO NOT BE OBNOXIOUS.
[/quote]
Not annoying obnoxious, funny obnoxious, and like not all the god damn time, just in it's moment.
 
חח פשוט תבדוק אם היא נותנת..
אם לא תזרוק D:
 
Most of the useful stuff has been said in this thread already, so my contribution is to advise you to watch your emotions, mostly jealously.
Just because your girlfriend talks to a guy whom you don't know, it doesn't mean she has feelings for them. Worse thing you can do is to ask her about the guy shortly afterwards, because it shows a lack of trust in your relationship.
I've seen many relationships end because of jealously. It's dangerous.


...

also, try to pick up when it's that time of the month. It's very helpful to know ;)
 
Little dude, just say what you mean, dress decently, and be yourself. It works. If you wanna be obnoxious or wear eyeliner or whatever, then by all means you should. Just ask yourself, "Is this who I really am?" Don't get too deep though. Zen never got anyone a second date.
 
Just be yourself. That's all there is to it. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then it wasn't meant to be. How long would you want to keep up a siily charade for anyway? You'll never be happy with her unless she likes you for who you really are; games are stupid.
 
If you are serious about it and wish to keep up with the relationship, then just "be yourself".
Dont try to act differently, as at some point you will be fade up of it...

I was thinking the same way when I was your age(15), but during the last 3-4 years alot has changed. Many people will agree with me, our age is not to be considered to have anything called "true love".
The first thing that comes up in every teenegers mind is "SEX!!, SEX!!! and more SEX!!".
(PS. I had 6 girlfriends so far and now am single again.. and theres this girl i like etc. etc.(so here another story starts for me....)
 

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