My girlfriend is pissed off at me...

Well, I took my girlfriend to see the new Chronicles of Narnia. Went and stopped off at sonic for something to eat. She took one bite of her popcorn chicken, and as I asked her if she liked it, she replied no. In my mind I was like... OKAAAY what the hell is going on. She said, well it's getting late it's around 10 o' clock. As I turned the car on, and took a look at the clock (it's an hour ahead), I was like actually it's only 9:35. She blatantly said well your clock says 10:35, and my phone says the same thing. I then pull out my phone and show her the actual time. About 10 minutes later we pull into her neighborhood, and she comments on how pretty the Christmas lights are (I agree), then I say: "How much you want to bet the a few of these people won't take their lights down after Christmas?" She replied, but only Rednecks do that, and I say maybe they are more prone to do something like that, but even someone who doesn't have enough time would do it as well. She completely ignores this, and says that this is an Urban area and that there are no Rednecks around to leave their lights up, and her conclusion was that no one would leave their lights up. Ugh, so we drive up to her house, I am visibly bewildered to the point that I can practically see myself in a non-existent mirror. I walk her to the door, and as she walks into the door, I say Good night honey, and she turned and said: "Next time consider the power of your words." Before doing her version of slamming the door in my face. One could actually describe myself as having my mouth drop to the floor, like a Tom and Jerry cartoon.

Honest to God, this is the first time in our six months of dating that I have ever once seen her like this. Especially towards me.

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I have never done anything wrong. I always leave the decision of where to go, when to go, and if she wants to go. Unless she's strapped for a location, it's always up to her. I never hit, yell, scream, or even argue. This is the first time this has happened in the 6 months we have been dating. It has left me confused, and to a certain extent hurt. I always treat women with respect, I call people out who don't. It's for that very reason she was the one who asked me to go with her. She wants food, she is going to get food. If she doesn't choose, or is adamant about me choosing, well I guess it's my lucky night. I absolutely want to be right... WHEN it actually matters. I don't know what I said, I don't care what I said. I meant no harm by it, and as soon as I get around to talking to her, I will set things right. If I can't, well there are plenty of other women out there who would appreciate my company. I just hope it doesn't come to that because I absolutely care about her, and am in love with her. But what can a guy do when it just can't be fixed (besides duct tape).


[quote name='Maz7006' post='3320096' date='Dec 11 2010, 02:54 AM']has she ever done this before ?

don't take this personally, but i dnt like dating the childish - i will get pissed off for no reason - kind of girl.

if its the first time it's ever happened with you and her, then dnt worry so much, she's probably annoyed about something, displacing it on your relationship.[/quote]

I would honestly rather her take it out on me than someone who could put more consequences to her. We can always smooth it out later, and not even skip a beat.
 
D:
This sucks...I'd say ask her what's wrong, but that might make it worse...
I saw FireGrey's 1st post, and was going to add to this, inb4PGsaysBS, but then saw she already had :ha:
 
Maybe it's her way of saying enough Runescape, spend more time with me...
kidding :D
 
This is what you do. Buy her a teddy bear or a small bunch of flowers. And surprise her. Say "I'm sorry, I know I left you upset. I don't know what I did, but I know I did something. I'm not the smartest boyfriend in the world, probably the entire universe, but when I know I goofed up even though I might not know why, I try to fix it. "
 
women are hard to understand. but, if i may ask. in past few days / weeks, did you have a fight with her?
 
[quote name='ShadowSoldier' post='3320172' date='Dec 11 2010, 04:27 AM']This is what you do. Buy her a teddy bear or a small bunch of flowers. And surprise her. Say "I'm sorry, I know I left you upset. I don't know what I did, but I know I did something. I'm not the smartest boyfriend in the world, probably the entire universe, but when I know I goofed up even though I might not know why, I try to fix it. "[/quote]
I like this, if a regular apology doesn't work I will definitely do this.

[quote name='azure0wind' post='3320174' date='Dec 11 2010, 04:27 AM']women are hard to understand. but, if i may ask. in past few days / weeks, did you have a fight with her?[/quote]
Nope, I am not one of those guys that will constantly cling to his girlfriend (she is the same as me). Sure I'll drop by to see her, and ask if she needed help with some homework or something (she is a sophomore in Highschool). Friday, Saturday or Sunday, we'll do something with each other. Whether it be a movie (rent or cinema), dropping by a restaurant (Never fast food unless we are wanting to be quick), or just hanging out and talking. Sometimes we'll do two days, and she understands that I really don't have that much money to my name to use. So when she has money, she basically threatens to make me Sterile Sterling if I don't let her pay. :ninja: It is a really healthy relationship, which is why I am so confused about tonight. :(
 
I've never been in a relationship, but I bet you ANY money that she's mad about something else that probably isn't even related to your relationship.

I have quite a few friends that also happen to be girls, and whenever they're mad, they usually say it's for something completely unrelated, and then if I ask them and talk to them, they usually say what the actual reason is.

I'm sure the best thing to do is NOT to ask her what's wrong, because she'll probably get even more pissed. Try to lead her into saying why through a long conversation or something. Ask how she's feeling, see if she wants to do something, etc.
 
You said something that irked her, even if you can't put your finger on it. That you took her somewhere and I assume she was in a good mood to begin with means that something you said may have bothered her and it was probably somewhere during the movie or on the way to eat. You most likely didn't even say anything blatantly wrong but I've had this happen with 3 women. I'll share an example with you.

I was dating this one girl in college, she likes pop music. Which of them doesn't? Taylor swift, Gaga, (not bieber thank you lord) and hiphop- just popular stuff. From the getgo she knows I don't like it and how those songs are typically about sex- but she would laugh along with me for like months too.

One day we're talking via messenger and I made fun of pop music as usual and praising old rock music (she would call me an old fart, which is ironic because she's a year older than me haha) and she said "Maybe you'll learn to stop being so insensitive" or something along those lines- and she signed off. Did that irritate me? Hell yeah it did.

But here's what I did with each girl that had an out-burst like that: Put my foot down. It's not to say we men are emotion free, but women do have a tendency to act irrationally once in a while. For her I didn't bother driving over there, texting, emailing- nothing.

If you know she's in trouble and you know your help will benefit- go to her. But girls don't like clingy. Sometimes they "need a break" even when they don't really need it. I didn't see her until the following day where she just embraced me from behind. Turns out she was just really stressed over some final papers for the semester and she just "lashed out at me".

No harm no foul and we moved on. So in short, just play it cool. And if it does blow over, treat it like it never happened

No big deal, just wait & see what happens tbh
 

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