this girl, man

so this is my first blog post and ive never really done this before so i thought id give it a shot. so i've been talking to this girl for close to 2 years now and ive wanted to go out with her for a while so we finally did it. it wasnt the ideal first date but we still had fun. we went over to her mom's house, some shit happened but, it was still cool. i met her little brother, both of her sister's, and her mom. we ordered pizza and just kicked back. all and all she is just f**king perfect. she's beautiful, smart, funny, and we like alot of the same stuff but i find my problem is i just dont talk enough or rather i run out of things to say but she says she still likes me. so i need some help i need find like a list of indy bands to listen to and i need some more conversation starters

so this is a first of many more to come and thanks for reading

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Kioku
[quote name='vash117' post='3921241' date='Oct 7 2011, 10:46 AM']...so i've been talking to this girl for close to 2 years now... ....i met her little brother, both of her sister's, and her mom.[/quote]

DUDE! Did you recently meet her in person or what? lol... I'd be down for giving some tips, but more info is very much needed. xD
 
SinHarvest24
[quote name='nando' post='3921340' date='Oct 7 2011, 07:42 PM']i don't get it... at what point did you find out she was a man?[/quote]
i lol'd, seriously.
 
thieves like us
[quote name='nando' post='3921340' date='Oct 7 2011, 01:42 PM']i don't get it... at what point did you find out she was a man?[/quote]
maybe he's in thailand and just found out that he's into lady-boys :P

seriously, it may be just nerves for the first meeting that you've run out of things to say. don't ever feel like you've got to tackle and talk about everything. chances are that you probably have more things in common than you're currently aware of and once you find that out, you'll have more than enough things to talk about :)
 
N
Talking about stupid shit you've done and miraculously got away with is always a solid path, you know, as long as it isn't too stupid to the point that it is hurting your cause.
 
roastable
indIE bands

A few that I like
-Bloc Party
-Wolf Parade
-Hundred in the Hands
-Bombay Bicycle Club
-The Naked and the Famous

the thing that's hard with indie is that there's not much to go by... it can be anything, and there's so little of each thing usually xD

But don't get into it just because she is. Faking yourself to her won't amount to anything.
 
Sicklyboy
Talk about what YOU'RE interested in, even if she isn't. If it's something that you are very knowledgeable about, chicks love that if they dont mind not understanding something.

Otherwise, talk about dubstep. Convert her.

Edit - dubstep. Because this is shagging music right here.

[youtube]NnlUer7l2h8[/youtube]
 
N
[quote name='plasma dragon007' post='3921375' date='Oct 7 2011, 11:21 AM']Otherwise, talk about anything but shitty 'ol dubstep.[/quote]

Fix'd.
 
Sicklyboy
[quote name='Nathan Drake' post='3921377' date='Oct 7 2011, 02:22 PM'][quote name='plasma dragon007' post='3921375' date='Oct 7 2011, 11:21 AM']Otherwise, talk about anything but shitty 'ol dubstep.[/quote]

Fix'd.
[/quote]

To each his own :mthr:
 
N
[quote name='plasma dragon007' post='3921379' date='Oct 7 2011, 11:26 AM'][quote name='Nathan Drake' post='3921377' date='Oct 7 2011, 02:22 PM'][quote name='plasma dragon007' post='3921375' date='Oct 7 2011, 11:21 AM']Otherwise, talk about anything but shitty 'ol dubstep.[/quote]

Fix'd.
[/quote]

To each his own :mthr:
[/quote]

Oh you and your shagging music.
 
amptor
WHERE IS PHOTOS OF THE TRAP

I think you left out a comma in the subject of this blog :)

sounds good though. last time I had a g/f, we didn't really need to talk about music.. she would just put the radio to the station she likes to listen to and that worked out well. I listen to anything so if whomever is in the car wants to put a station on, it is fine. And ya I know they don't play much indie on the radio too but this girl in particular liked dance music, as many women tend to. And it is good because they like to dance and have a good time so that is great.
 
V
ok first and for most i live in las vegas,nv and @thieves like us had some good advice and @nando :glare: go screw yourself and at what point did you figure out that you liked lady boys? lol @Mcheif29b yes i just recently met her my mom and her went to cosmetology school together and what other info would you need @amptor i think ill just let her choose the music now sounds like a good plan. @plasma dragoon007 i don't usually listen to dubstep but that song is really good just that one though. i think i have addressed every one so yeah......
 
Midna
OP. I think you're worrying too much. You shouldn't have to put on a show for her. I know it sounds cliche, but just be yourself. if you can't just act natural and have her still love you, you've got problems, because you won't be able to put on a show for an entire long term relationship.
 
Kioku
[quote name='vash117' post='3921453' date='Oct 7 2011, 01:33 PM']@Mcheif29b yes i just recently met her my mom and her went to cosmetology school together and what other info would you need[/quote]


Mchief298* not b :O :(

Anyway, well from what I can see.. All I can say is, take your time.. Get to know her a little better, let her get to know you. Do the above, talk about interests. Find something in common and go from there.
 

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