Fitting the mold

I normally don't do personal blogs, but here I am doing just that. It's a subject that's near and dear to me as well. Being a nerd.

First of all, I'm perfectly happy admitting to people I'm a nerd. I don't feel ashamed of the things I like, even when they are dumb (I'm looking at you pokemon). In general though, I find that people expect these things out of me:

1. When I say I like anime, people assume I'm some sort of hardcore otaku who lives and breathes the stuff to stay alive. That's pretty much the exact opposite of me. I do watch anime, but usually only 1 to 4 series every few months with the only one I follow weekly being One Piece (Since One Piece has been near and dear to me since I was 12 or 13). Other than that, I don't watch much anime. I don't even watch much of the new stuff since, to be honest, a lot of it is unappealing. I do admit though, I'm am obsessed with Studio Ghibli. I fucking love nearly everything they've put out.

2. People seem to think I'm some kind of computer whiz. In reality, I suck with computers. I'm not as inept as your average person, but when it comes down to more specific hard to assess problems, I'm useless. This one doesn't come up too often, but every so often someone wants me to fix their comp and I have no idea how to.

3. I'm in love with video games...

You know what, I agree with this one. I love video games. I probably play more games than any other hobby. I even want to learn Japanese to play games that have never come out in English. So yes, I'm a huge video game nerd. I'm not angry though.

4. I'm socially inept and have little to no life. I couldn't disagree more with this one. I've got a job, a few good friends, and I go out pretty much everyday be it for work or just to talk with friends. I do admit though that I like being alone a bit more since I value my privacy quite a bit. In general, I think it's a bit insulting that just because some has a certain hobby that they lack social skills. This may be true for some, but most people in my line of interest are very nice and social people who share a common like of something.

5. One thing I notice anime fans find odd is my love for animation in other countries besides Japan. I've seen stuff in English, Russian, French and other languages over the years because I just like animation. Pixar is notably my favorite animation studio due to the amazing amount of awesome movies they've released. I also have a soft spot for Disney (That is slowly hardening with time) and I'm also a fan of the old Warner Brothers cartoons. I think it's kind of sad most anime fans brush off animation in other countries as "Immature" or "For kids". In my opinion, both Japanese animation and animation from other countries has similar flaws and strengths, but some people (Probably most) see more flaws in one more than the other.

To end it off, I find that my interests haven't changed much since I turned 16. I'm 18 now, and I find as I grow older that my passion for the things I like stays strong, unlike when I was a kid where I would go from Tamagotchi to pokemon trading cards in a matter of weeks. So I'll end this by posing a question. Do you think having an interest in subjects such as animation, videos games and the like is strange, or is our societies views on those subjects what makes them strange?

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I wouldn't describe myself as a nerd, but I happily do a geek.

[quote name='Tonitonichopchop' post='3734518' date='Jun 23 2011, 08:46 PM']4. I'm socially inept and have little to no life. I couldn't disagree more with this one. [snip...] In general, I think it's a bit insulting that just because some has a certain hobby that they lack social skills. This may be true for some, but most people in my line of interest are very nice and social people who share a common like of something.[/quote]

I actually love this one. The people who can and will put on massive conferences, festivals, even informal get togethers but on a scale the ones with the prejudices would never see outside of a sports event... Well yes, we're the socially inept ones.
 
[quote name='cwstjdenobs' post='3734563' date='Jun 23 2011, 11:18 PM']I wouldn't describe myself as a nerd, but I happily do a geek.

[quote name='Tonitonichopchop' post='3734518' date='Jun 23 2011, 08:46 PM']4. I'm socially inept and have little to no life. I couldn't disagree more with this one. [snip...] In general, I think it's a bit insulting that just because some has a certain hobby that they lack social skills. This may be true for some, but most people in my line of interest are very nice and social people who share a common like of something.[/quote]

I actually love this one. The people who can and will put on massive conferences, festivals, even informal get togethers but on a scale the ones with the prejudices would never see outside of a sports event... Well yes, we're the socially inept ones.
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I find it odd the stereotype even exists. I think it's probably because of the internet and certain things in the media. I actually don't find many geeks/nerds who have social problems. They're just really passionate about something.
 
Fuck that brah, if societal expectation was law I'd be heavily punished by now so that can suck my dick. You're still at a young age and you'll still meet a bunch of cool people who share the same interests. I can't for the life of me make friends with people who don't share any interest that I do nor I feel I can be in a relationship with someone who is the total opposite. I put it out there that I love anime, games, comics, computers, and dare I say it, trolling. Heck I even love shows like Power Rangers and Kamen Rider and don't mind telling the world. I think it would be one of the awesomest things to be a Kamen Rider in real life. And hell I may get shit for liking some of that stuff especially when someone says I look like a person who wouldn't be into it.. ha. Everyone is "strange" in their own ways IMO.
 
I know that feel, bro, although I'm not a very social person by choice. I don't quite enjoy the company of more outgoing, optimistic people. They tend to have interests that greatly differ from mine. A lot of this comes from being atheist and living in a small highly-religious town, too. Quite a few people don't know this, though, due to it being in my best interests at the moment to hide this fact about me. For now I can tolerate the annoying religious facebook statuses and the religious conversations that I can only join with debate. I play video games and, lately, visual novels, too. Although that's not much of a rarity anymore. Even atheism's not so rare anymore, which is nice. I like having time to myself, and I'm a bit awkward in extended conversations. I tend to space out and think about weird shit (see blog post). Can't say I'm not happy.
 

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