I may be starting to hate my whole family, cause of him. I just do, he is very bothersome. After arguing for no reason for 2 hours of him yelling at me about dumb stuff... i need to point out this started with his tablet. He been "expressing" that he had problems with his signal for wifi, and keeps talking bad about the router i purchased that is not a good one. Even though it works for me and everyone else, he uses it but he still complains. He tried to do something about it, he bought a range extender. If you all know what it does, is like a second access point you create in your house to get better signal by connecting to it since it has better accessability to move around than a stationary system.
He been using this app on his tablet tha supposed to detect frequency of wireless signals which is probably the whole problem in the first place cause it doesn't work. Is inaccurate, is just my opinion. I have a trendnet ac 1750 AC dual band router that works fine and had for 3 years with no issues for me. He still complains is the router since i got it and keep saying "If you put back in the router i bought, we wouldn't have any problems, and i wouldn't have to bother you about it." Yeah the Linksys single band router from 2006. I was trying to upgrade our situation. That dumb signal detector app says that my ps4 keeps broadcasting a signal and that is not supposed to do that.
First how do you know is my ps4 doing it? Second if is not supposed to be doing it, why is it? If it wasn't you wouldn't see it. I never told him that it may have to do with remote play but i honestly dunno, again, i'm not sure is mine, it could be somewhere else. I told him how are you supposed to know what is supposed to do. Guess it was his trigger, for two hours he argues about every other thing that can make me look unappealing.
"You don't know nothing, is not supposed to do that, is not a router, it shouldn't be creating a access point." Obviously he doesn't know about the range extendor, home networking, or the game consoles he buys asking for my help all the time when he doesn't have to. We have the internet for a reason, but he wants to argue with me about what should be happening.
Then tells me i don't respect him, he says i am supposed to respect my parents, they give birth to me, I'm here because of it. Stating facts and obvious things isn't supposed to change anything about the current situation. The problem is that he always is yelling and is hard to stay calm or relax when someone yells in your ears, second he says i don't respect my self cause i don't respect my parents, explain how i can respect someone who treats me this way ALL THE TIME. How can i respect someone who DOESN'T PAY A BILL OR RENT WITH HIS NAME ON IT. How can i want to ask for help or anything to someone who BEHAVES THIS WAY ALL THE TIME.
Would you wanna talk to someone like that? He always talk about the past, well he think that perhaps he was best at a time i didn't exist or knew him, neither did my mom know he would turn out this way either. He expects me to have respect for someone as a right simply cause he is the reason i'm alive, and have the things i have (even though some of it i worked for myself) Should i say thanks for setting me up in this poor situation where we live in a apartment where i pay your part of the rent and my mom also spend like $600 on his part of the rent and the optimum bill?
If you was a respectable person, you would be having something respectable to complain about not getting respect for. The past is in the past, everyone tries not to forget these things, we all have moments we wanna forget or keep forever. I appreciate the stuff my parents have done, and will if they continue to do so, but i don't appreciate the now of things as they aren't something i want to remember. Mentally damaging someone credibility by saying i don't respect myself cause i don't respect my parents does not make sense. It doesn't make sense that this happened for hours unnecessarily because his tablet is having signal problems with obtaining good connections.
I don't know everything, I do need help sometimes, and when i do, i look for information myself or ask someone when i can. I don't ask him because of his aditiude. I don't like when he yells at me, he is too agressive, is like talking to Yosamite sam from looney tunes. Is just awful. I learned how to set up network and wireless connections in school, that was over 6 years ago, there was never no class about this when he was in school growing up 50 years ago, wifi didn't exist then. I don't care that he doesn't like my moral opinions or view on how i do things, he thinks i don't know whats important in life, but that not the point, i'm sick of him coplaining and arguing about dumb crap that doesn't matter at the time cause he feels he has to teach me a lesson now about life. That wasn't why the conversation started, it was cause you got a app that detects signals that is potentially effecting your connection. Just don't know what to do with him, no one likes talking to him. My mom, my sister, both my brothers, just don't like it.
He does this all the time, but this is someone who i am supposed to respect regardless of this behavior, no, i have my reasons for my actions or distase for him. If he didn't yell all the time, if he didn't sound so hostile where he ready to just hit someone, he would be more approachable. I don't know anymore, but i just don't like how he wants to use everything he can as a weapon, his grandmother wouldn't like this family, we don't respect him, Excuse me, i didn't know the reason for my UNREQUESTED EXISTENCE was to get his approval on everything and respect him even though there is no credible reason to, and tell me i'll never be ready to be a father. That part was unnecessary. This whole conversation is dumb, is clearly just a excuse to get some dumb personal issue off his chest and he wants to do it at me cause i provoked him is what he would say. Mean while is okay to provoke me to some extent to say what i did and now he upset about it. Things would go along better if he was more approachable.
There lots of families who have children who don't talk to the parents, or respect them, for one reason or another, wonder why their child do things they do, lie to them about things, or avoid subjects, not cause they are bad parents but cause they don't make it clear that is okay to talk to them about these things, they don't make it confortable. Being honest i'm not some psychology major or doctor, is just learn from experience and observing people. You don't make your own home a safe place for discussing things that you hope your teachings and believe that you done well enough to help them, then is just how things happen, you gonna sit there and complain about it being someone elses fault why your life is like this or are you gonna try and do something about it without making it worst?
I dunno what kind of life he had before, and i don't like hearing about it, mostly cause lack of interest but cause is always being discussed at the wrong time, in the middle of a arguement in comparison to his past and our present. No one's life is gonna be the same as yours was, i'm sorry that things didn't work out like you had planned or expected but that is life. Stop complaining and do something about it or just leave it alone, stop preaching your ideals on to others when is too late. When i needed someone at a younger age, my mom was there, when i had bullies at school, parent teacher conference when i got good grades and bad ones, when she wanted to know more about aspergers syndrome cause i was diagnosed with it. Where was he, in his bedroom watching young and the restless for the past 20 years, no help with homework, taking care of himself.
He made a bad impression on things and he assumes the past makes up for it. The more we continue into the future the bigger the past gets, in the current present the more bad you do over good, is gonna be more memorable cause is easier target, if you did more good than bad, is possible that people will forgive and forget the bad (depending on severity) But is just become a job like to deal with this.
I'm sorry i said so much, i was in really bad mood and a bad position that i had to release it some way.
He been using this app on his tablet tha supposed to detect frequency of wireless signals which is probably the whole problem in the first place cause it doesn't work. Is inaccurate, is just my opinion. I have a trendnet ac 1750 AC dual band router that works fine and had for 3 years with no issues for me. He still complains is the router since i got it and keep saying "If you put back in the router i bought, we wouldn't have any problems, and i wouldn't have to bother you about it." Yeah the Linksys single band router from 2006. I was trying to upgrade our situation. That dumb signal detector app says that my ps4 keeps broadcasting a signal and that is not supposed to do that.
First how do you know is my ps4 doing it? Second if is not supposed to be doing it, why is it? If it wasn't you wouldn't see it. I never told him that it may have to do with remote play but i honestly dunno, again, i'm not sure is mine, it could be somewhere else. I told him how are you supposed to know what is supposed to do. Guess it was his trigger, for two hours he argues about every other thing that can make me look unappealing.
"You don't know nothing, is not supposed to do that, is not a router, it shouldn't be creating a access point." Obviously he doesn't know about the range extendor, home networking, or the game consoles he buys asking for my help all the time when he doesn't have to. We have the internet for a reason, but he wants to argue with me about what should be happening.
Then tells me i don't respect him, he says i am supposed to respect my parents, they give birth to me, I'm here because of it. Stating facts and obvious things isn't supposed to change anything about the current situation. The problem is that he always is yelling and is hard to stay calm or relax when someone yells in your ears, second he says i don't respect my self cause i don't respect my parents, explain how i can respect someone who treats me this way ALL THE TIME. How can i respect someone who DOESN'T PAY A BILL OR RENT WITH HIS NAME ON IT. How can i want to ask for help or anything to someone who BEHAVES THIS WAY ALL THE TIME.
Would you wanna talk to someone like that? He always talk about the past, well he think that perhaps he was best at a time i didn't exist or knew him, neither did my mom know he would turn out this way either. He expects me to have respect for someone as a right simply cause he is the reason i'm alive, and have the things i have (even though some of it i worked for myself) Should i say thanks for setting me up in this poor situation where we live in a apartment where i pay your part of the rent and my mom also spend like $600 on his part of the rent and the optimum bill?
If you was a respectable person, you would be having something respectable to complain about not getting respect for. The past is in the past, everyone tries not to forget these things, we all have moments we wanna forget or keep forever. I appreciate the stuff my parents have done, and will if they continue to do so, but i don't appreciate the now of things as they aren't something i want to remember. Mentally damaging someone credibility by saying i don't respect myself cause i don't respect my parents does not make sense. It doesn't make sense that this happened for hours unnecessarily because his tablet is having signal problems with obtaining good connections.
I don't know everything, I do need help sometimes, and when i do, i look for information myself or ask someone when i can. I don't ask him because of his aditiude. I don't like when he yells at me, he is too agressive, is like talking to Yosamite sam from looney tunes. Is just awful. I learned how to set up network and wireless connections in school, that was over 6 years ago, there was never no class about this when he was in school growing up 50 years ago, wifi didn't exist then. I don't care that he doesn't like my moral opinions or view on how i do things, he thinks i don't know whats important in life, but that not the point, i'm sick of him coplaining and arguing about dumb crap that doesn't matter at the time cause he feels he has to teach me a lesson now about life. That wasn't why the conversation started, it was cause you got a app that detects signals that is potentially effecting your connection. Just don't know what to do with him, no one likes talking to him. My mom, my sister, both my brothers, just don't like it.
He does this all the time, but this is someone who i am supposed to respect regardless of this behavior, no, i have my reasons for my actions or distase for him. If he didn't yell all the time, if he didn't sound so hostile where he ready to just hit someone, he would be more approachable. I don't know anymore, but i just don't like how he wants to use everything he can as a weapon, his grandmother wouldn't like this family, we don't respect him, Excuse me, i didn't know the reason for my UNREQUESTED EXISTENCE was to get his approval on everything and respect him even though there is no credible reason to, and tell me i'll never be ready to be a father. That part was unnecessary. This whole conversation is dumb, is clearly just a excuse to get some dumb personal issue off his chest and he wants to do it at me cause i provoked him is what he would say. Mean while is okay to provoke me to some extent to say what i did and now he upset about it. Things would go along better if he was more approachable.
There lots of families who have children who don't talk to the parents, or respect them, for one reason or another, wonder why their child do things they do, lie to them about things, or avoid subjects, not cause they are bad parents but cause they don't make it clear that is okay to talk to them about these things, they don't make it confortable. Being honest i'm not some psychology major or doctor, is just learn from experience and observing people. You don't make your own home a safe place for discussing things that you hope your teachings and believe that you done well enough to help them, then is just how things happen, you gonna sit there and complain about it being someone elses fault why your life is like this or are you gonna try and do something about it without making it worst?
I dunno what kind of life he had before, and i don't like hearing about it, mostly cause lack of interest but cause is always being discussed at the wrong time, in the middle of a arguement in comparison to his past and our present. No one's life is gonna be the same as yours was, i'm sorry that things didn't work out like you had planned or expected but that is life. Stop complaining and do something about it or just leave it alone, stop preaching your ideals on to others when is too late. When i needed someone at a younger age, my mom was there, when i had bullies at school, parent teacher conference when i got good grades and bad ones, when she wanted to know more about aspergers syndrome cause i was diagnosed with it. Where was he, in his bedroom watching young and the restless for the past 20 years, no help with homework, taking care of himself.
He made a bad impression on things and he assumes the past makes up for it. The more we continue into the future the bigger the past gets, in the current present the more bad you do over good, is gonna be more memorable cause is easier target, if you did more good than bad, is possible that people will forgive and forget the bad (depending on severity) But is just become a job like to deal with this.
I'm sorry i said so much, i was in really bad mood and a bad position that i had to release it some way.
