Well, I'm single now and dunno what to do.

I've been with my ex gf for almost 4 years and it started off rocky but I pushed through it and it got much better, she moved in with me and had a daughter who wasn't even a year old.

I've raised that kid as my own and even tough she has autism it didn't change anything but my gf has a very angry personality and no patience which led her to growling her kid for no good reason alot of the time. For this reason I stuck around so I could make sure the kid was ok .

Now the kid just turned 4 and it's breaking my heart that I won't see her anymore but I think it's for the best that she will eventually forget me.

A month and a half ago I moved back to my mom's for financial reasons as she had quit her job and I couldn't keep up with the bills. This is when it started getting awkward.

The past few weeks that led up to this breakup was strange We didn't talk at all and when I made the effort it didn't go anywhere. (10 second phone calls)

So this morning after I had enough courage to break up with her after feeling sick of the thought of not seeing her daughter anymore got worst. So I was on my way to get place and she wasn't home... Decided if well I'll just go to work. On my way to work I saw her walking home so I drove up by her to talk to get and or of nowhere she broke up with me... So it was a mutual agreement at the end and I was expecting alot of anger.

After work today I need to pickup my belongings and u dunno how that will go I just have to finish my shift and try not to get emotional.
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I decided to just not talk to her again, and rid of myself of the drama and stress. Found out she was cheating so I'm done. I only miss the kid, but she's young enough to forget, so with all in all I chose the adult decision and hardest decision to distant myself away now.
 
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One word. Live. That's it. Find something to occupy the time, pick up a hobby you've overlooked due to time constraints or other reasons.
 
Durelle, this will sound harsh, but you need to start respecting yourself. Stop being a beta (or omega). Don't ever start something serious with a woman who already has a child (unless you also bring a child, i.e. work/effort to the patchwork family). She used you and even cheated on you? That's just the icing on the cake. People will not respect you unless you respect yourself at least a little bit. No need to get drunk. Enjoy the freedom for a while, get in shape (physically and financially - if not already the case) and get a new woman.
 
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Least you tried dude. Best to know than never know and Question yourself.TBH she is messing people around and most of all messing the childs head. Just see your doc man. Get checked out as hard as it is. The plus means when mrs right of someone else should x your path you have peace of mind. I have done this many a time and atleast it put my mind at rest..Hate cheaters finish with some one then do wtf you like i believe.....Keep the POKER face....her loss and not meant to be...Hate is not good so learning curv is easier to deal with and like many have said. i think its part of the cv on life no, matter what sex you are tbh.
 
I'll be fine, I'm not a drinker or druggy and not the type to sleep around. Maybe someday someone will come along. So no docs required. Id rather be alone than in a toxic relationship.
 
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Best way to look at it....i meant if she cheated on you and was still seeing you.Any how main thing is life carrys on....
 
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Play games (don't get drunk) and figure out what you need to do to find someone better. Best of luck to you.
 
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