Honestly, if you really want to use the 'oh but da buddy language!!' Excuse, then all indications lead to ford being the liar. My brothers a psychologist, and he says that all of the classical signs of a liar is on fords side. Ntm, but all of the people involved, even the best friend, claim that ford is really confused. Not throwing accusations or anything. Just sayin.
You are though as are most of the people in this thread. You can't just say your brother, who we have no way of knowing isn't just a mouthpiece for you, says these things and then deny any involvement in repeating them. This does bring up a great point though.
The narrative that is being made up by both sides is one of victim hood. Both sides have defenders who seem not to understand that they are doing the same thing they are calling the other side out for doing. At least, I hope they are unaware and they the political hypocrisy that is so common nowadays is unintentional.
Mr. Kavanaugh has worked in our political system for ages as an operative and as a judge. This means he has taken part in tearing down many many people, both politically and judicially. To behave in crisis as he did during his testimony would result in being held in contempt of court almost instantly and he, of all people, should know that. Emotion has no place in a member of the judicial, and Judges shouldn't be reacting in an emotional way. It seems that only counts on issues they define as emotional as opposed to being a steady guideline.
His life is no more ruined than hers. He gets no more threats then she does. It's ridiculous to pretend that this is somehow harder on him, when our nation is split and both sides are acting like immature children about it. They are both being attacked by the two different sides of the media, having everything about their personal lives splattered everywhere.
The truth lies somewhere in between the two extremes and I would love to find it. We may never get to that point as both sides tend to political hysteria nowadays. Take Mr Grahams performance on the Judiciary Committee. It was shamefully partisan and full of unproven accusations.
Indeed, it would seem to me that anyone who seriously wants to stop the accusation nature would look elsewhere than our two party system where this is prevalent on both sides. I have seen Republicans celebrate endlessly about the fall of Democrats and vice versa. Both sides have behaved shamefully.
And there are, I'm sure, good people on both sides as well.