masturbation addiction

[XoxconnorxoX]

I suffer from this addiction myself. Part of the problem with trying to defeat the addiction is that everywhere you look you'll hear people saying it's not an addiction and that masturbating cures cancer. Well you wouldn't have made this thread if you honestly thought that and 77 people wouldn't be watching this thread if they honestly thought that.

Masturbation and watching pornography is an addiction for many and this is scientifically proven by the similar high our body gets when we ejaculate which is comparable to the high a drug user feels. Worse is it defiles our minds. I'm sure everyone here probably first masturbated accidentally and innocently, but when it happens multiple times a day and you are disgusted with the material you are viewing, it's obvious that this is a problem. Some of the hmanga, hentai, and pornography I've seen I can never forget. Having viewed this stuff just changes who you are. It's hard to look people in the eyes (especially women) because you no longer can see good, all you see is sexual objects and people who cannot control themselves.

Well I can tell you now the greatest people in the world didn't spend their days masturbating. It's a sad and pathetic habit that destroys the spirit and the mind and the sooner you stop the sooner your life will improve.

The best strategy is to not be alone. If you live with other people, don't close your door. If you're going to be home alone, plan to do something at that time, even if you have to delay doing it so you can do it later when you know you'll be vulnerable. I've noticed when I stop masturbating I'm able to read and understand books better, I am able to dedicate myself to beating a game and improving at it. When I masturbate I usually get bored with everything else in my life quickly. I subconsciously compare the feeling of the high from ejaculation to everything else and suddenly only want to masturbate. I cannot even watch a movie or tv show when this happens.

I was innocent a long time ago

 

[_Chaz_]

weather you watch porn or not there will always be the need to touch your self. its a natural guy thing. don't fight nature.

Fuck yo couch!

 

[Shinintendo]

1)Delete your porn and use Internet Kosher

ask your ISP to put a blockade of all adult material on your internet.
2)go to group therapy
3)better yet, go be a monk. take a vow never to have sex and look at sex.
cause man, our world is filled with sex, you can't escape it.
everything will remind you of sex and make your dick itch for a fap

 

[smash_brew]

weather you watch porn or not there will always be the need to touch your self. its a natural guy thing. don't fight nature.

Fuck yo couch!

If your going to fuck your couch, wear a condom. going raw dog with a couch can lead to nasty rug burns. not that i would know first hand or anything.

 

[playallday]

It's a part of life nowadays. Just go with the flow.

shaunj66 & FAST6191, POST ALREADY! I want to see what you're gonna say about this.

 

[Warrior522]

...OW.

 

[Kane91z]

just to warn you my friend stopped and then gained 60 lbs in 6 months from eating instead =/

honestly masturbation is healthy - but if you need to watch perverted content which makes you feel ill after - you have other psychological issues at play.

 

[XoxconnorxoX]

It's a part of life nowadays. Just go with the flow.

shaunj66 & FAST6191, POST ALREADY! I want to see what you're gonna say about this.

the mods will probabley ban someone temporarily they did it to me when i ranted about my ex girlfriend *cough*bitch*cough*
dont ban me im joking joking!!

 

[Arm73]

I don't think you can completely stop unless you have a steady partner with a regular sexual relationship.
I mean the penis is one of your body's organs, and it needs to function properly.
If you never use it, you'll run into problems soon or later.

On the other hand ( no pun intended ) quitting visiting porn sites and such would be the healthier thing to do if you are worried that masturbation will diminish your ability to enjoy sex with your partner.
In fact, most of the ' activity ' happens to be in your brain and your brain alone can make you reach an orgasm.
If you are a porn addict, and used to shuffle through thousands of porn videos or pictures, then when you try to concentrate on one single partner, it will be less enjoyable because your brain is used to a lot more visual stimulation.
So I wouldn't say quit altogether, keep your organs ( and the muscles in there ) in shape and capable of properly functioning when needed, just as you do with your biceps, legs and brain, but stay away from porn and other sexual stimulation that you might be attracted to, and might spoil your natural process of getting aroused by a real companion.
Then you will enjoy your relationship to the fullest.

 

[Deleted User]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

 

[_Chaz_]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

Take up a hobby.

 

[Warrior522]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

Block 'em with a filter.

 

[tijntje_7]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

Block 'em with a filter.

+1 for comments that make sense

(and the other dude, who suggested the awesome)

 

[Deleted User]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

Block 'em with a filter.

Done that, but I know the password, obviously.

 

[Law]

grow the fuck up, kid.

this shit will leave your system naturally.

 

[Deleted User]

Eventually. A massive word with big problems. Sheesh, this is going to be hard.

 

[Chaosruler]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

Do you have any ideas how many people asked that question? it just seem to raise along with the years

Honestly? real solution is to DO SOMETHING (or someone)

Video games included, programming, watching t.v, anime, manga, books (always comes last, huh?)

other recommandition is to set your wallpaper as something disgusting in your brain, and seriously, I know you can find something at temp pics, people were just posting there fake pics with no relevence to themselves that looks like.... I won't describe more

Last thing? actual activity with your hands, does the best preformance, for me it was modding, till I had no money to pay for cases

 

[Deleted User]

Great advice! VGs here I come!

 

[smash_brew]

Maybe you should stop looking at this as a problem. why not think of it as a good thing? it feels good and releases stress. sounds like a good thing to me.

 

[giratina16]

OK. HOW Do I quit porn sites. I will not quit masturbating, maybe cut it down weekly or something, maybe a 'reward', but I always recall memories of porn while masturbating. How do I stop porn sites from invading my brain?

Try a simple search of that's not sexy. If that doesn't turn you off then nothing will. Masturbating is not a bad thing. You should love it!