The bastard really fucked up now.

[Demonbart]

So for all of you people who read my last blog and said I was whining and that my parents aren't that bad, I here have the evidence that my father is a violent bastard.
During dinner my little sister was continuously pokeing me in the chest with her finger. I found this annoying, so I tried to push her arm away, and hit my right hand against the table while trying to do so.
This hurt a lot, since (because of my handicap) my right hand is really sensitive, so I shout "goddammit.
Next thing I know is that my father starts raging, he shouts at me that I'm a bastard, and that I shouldn't shout.
I call him a fat retarded hypocrite, and then he starts to (literally) pull my hair (a lot of which got pulled out of my head), spit in my face and hit me over the head.
Now tell me, am I really a whining, stuck up kid that should learn normal manners or is my father a retard that hits me over the head and pulls my hair out if I don't completely agree with what he says and treat him like he's the motherfucking king?
TELL ME FFS!

EDIT:

Spoiler: Some of the hairs that he pulled out of my head (not nearly everything, most of it is still downstairs)

Spoiler: A pic of me and my right hand, which might make clear why it hurts more than normal when I hit something with it.

 

[Theraima]

Well thats a bit too much, call for public officers or something.

 

[rockstar99]

How often does he hit you like that?

 

[Law]

Maybe try not calling him a "fat retarded hypocrite" at the dinner table and just shutting the fuck up.

 

[Njrg]

Pwn'd!

 

[D34DL1N3R]

Maybe you shouldn't react to him. He got pissed and called you a bastard? Big deal... just let it go and don't say anything back. Knowing what his temper and actions are from past experiences, you already knew that calling him a fat retarded hypocrite surely wasn't going to make things better. What would he have done if you just said nothing back whatsoever?

 

[Veho]

I call him a fat retarded hypocrite

Or you could just calmly explain to him what happened.

 

[prowler]

Now tell me, am I really a whining, stuck up kid that should learn normal manners or is my father a retard that hits me over the head and pulls my hair out if I don't completely agree with what he says and treat him like he's the motherfucking king?

You are a whining, stuck up kid that should learn normal manners.
If you wasn't, you wouldn't be in this crap right now.

*snip

 

[Njrg]

I herd zee diabetis maiks you anger.

 

[Demonbart]

How often does he hit you like that?
This kind of things have been happening for almost ten years now, a couple of times a month, and it's only since like two years that I started hitting him back cuz I just refuse to be terrrorised like that any longer.

Maybe try not calling him a "fat retarded hypocrite" at the dinner table and just shutting the fuck up.
Maybe if he wasn't a fat retard hypocrite I wouldn't have to call him that.

*snip

QUOTE(Demonbart @ Apr 29 2010, 06:37 PM)

I call him a fat retarded hypocrite

Or you could just calmly explain to him what happened.

I tried at first but he kept on shouting at me about how I shouldn't have shouted.

 

[Veho]

Maybe if he wasn't a fat retard hypocrite I wouldn't have to call him that.

And maybe if you didn't call him that you wouldn't have gotten pwn'd.

 

[Njrg]

Ugh! Stop stealing my thing!

 

[Popid]

you guys are tossers. To the OP: that's seriously fucked. Sorry you're in that situation. Do you have relatives/someone you can trust to discuss it with? that you know in person? That kind of abuse is uncalled for regardless of what you said - or anything u COULD say...All you losers on here who say to shut up, or whatever else, I'd like to see how you'd be feeling right now if it had happened to you. Oh but it wouldn't have happened to you, because you've learnt how to STFU and let people emotionally trample you and just take it, so it doesn't escalate - awesome, that'll work forever

I think before this happens again you need to speak to somebody in person who you can trust, talk it over with them in all its aspects and take it from there..

 

[Demonbart]

you guys are tossers. To the OP: that's seriously fucked. Sorry you're in that situation. Do you have relatives/someone you can trust to discuss it with? that you know in person? That kind of abuse is uncalled for regardless of what you said - or anything u COULD say...All you losers on here who say to shut up, or whatever else, I'd like to see how you'd be feeling right now if it had happened to you. Oh but it wouldn't have happened to you, because you've learnt how to STFU and let people emotionally trample you and just take it, so it doesn't escalate - awesome, that'll work forever

I think before this happens again you need to speak to somebody in person who you can trust, talk it over with them in all its aspects and take it from there..

Well the only person who I regularly talk to and who I can really trust is my best friend, but since he's 15 he can't really do much either.

 

[Sanderino]

Next thing I know is that my father starts raging, he shouts at me that I'm a bastard, and that I shouldn't shout.
I call him a fat retarded hypocrite, and then he starts to (literally) pull my hair (a lot of which got pulled out of my head), spit in my face and hit me over the head.

Dude, I really feel for you that you are in such a situation, you shouldn't apologize to your dad. He should.
And in my opinion I think that pulling hairs out and spitting in you sons face are not normal.

 

[Rowan]

are you half man half crab ?

 

[Demonbart]

are you half man half crab ?

Fuck you, you gonna make fun of me for something I can't do shit about!? I've got only two words. FUCK YOU!

 

[Popid]

do you have a school counsellor or somebody like that? Or a teacher you like and trust. Or perhaps your best friend's parent(s) could be someone that you could speak to (perhaps with your friend by your side) about the situation and they could help you find another adult who could take it from there? I think what your dad did is completely out of line and unacceptable, and if you believe it will happen again then I think you need to do something about it. You do always have the option of calling the police if it ever happens and gets completely out of hand, but I don't know how much good they'll be, esp in the long run. So, discussion with an adult who can properly assess the situation and how to deal with it is probably the best bet..

 

[p1ngpong]

Now I have nothing against a parent giving a kid a smack when they deserve it. It gets on my nerves when do-gooders try and intervene and cry about it. But really pulling your hair out of your head, and especially spitting in your face is fucked up. Parent, relative or whoever, if someone spat in my face I don't know what I would do, I would go seriously apeshit on them.

 

[Demonbart]

Now I have nothing against a parent giving a kid a smack when they deserve it. It gets on my nerves when do-gooders try and intervene and cry about it. But really pulling your hair out of your head, and especially spitting in your face is fucked up. Parent, relative or whoever, if someone spat in my face I don't know what I would do, I would go seriously apeshit on them.

well that's pretty much what I did.