Alright, so I'm currently an undergraduate student at a university. I share a suite with 5 suitemates (excluding my roommate) and there are 2 bathrooms that we all share; one room has 2 suitemates, the other room has 2 suitemates, the other room has myself and my roommate, and the final room has 1 suitemate.
Initially, it seemed that everybody was using whatever bathroom they pleased so I called a meeting to discuss the matter. We came to the conclusion that me and my roommate and the room next door would use one bathroom and the suitemate in the single and the other suitemates in the other room would use the other bathroom. It seemed like things were fine after this, but I was terribly wrong.
Before the meeting, I cleaned the bathroom thoroughly since it was not cleaned at all since school started (it was about a month after school started). After the meeting, another suitemate was supposed to clean it and he still has not cleaned. I reminded him last week before I went home for the weekend and it still has not been cleaned (this was not the 1st time after the meeting I asked him about it).
On the day I went home, I realized that the kid in the single is using my bathroom rather than his. I asked him about it and he said he showers in his and goes to the bathroom in mine, which I totally don't understand. He probably is only doing this since his bathroom is disgusting (as it has not been cleaned at all) and my bathroom is relatively clean as it was cleaned twice by me and ONLY ME.
It just pisses me off that I'm like the only clean guy in this suite and that everybody is doing whatever the fuck they want. I mean there has been a pizza box in the common area for about 3 weeks now after 1 of them ordered pizza. It just goes to show that they are pigs and never clean up after themselves. I'm the only one taking initiative and I'm almost at a breaking point. I honestly don't know what to do since I have to put up with this shit until the year is over in May of next year. Should I go to my RA (who seems very distant)? Should I contact my RA from last year (who is still an RA and I had a really good relationship with)? Should I just bite the bullet and continue to clean the bathroom by myself; I got to ask my roommate though since he uses that bathroom and he is far cleaner than my suitemates. Any suggestions would do and I greatly appreciate them. Sorry for the long rant just really fed up.
Initially, it seemed that everybody was using whatever bathroom they pleased so I called a meeting to discuss the matter. We came to the conclusion that me and my roommate and the room next door would use one bathroom and the suitemate in the single and the other suitemates in the other room would use the other bathroom. It seemed like things were fine after this, but I was terribly wrong.
Before the meeting, I cleaned the bathroom thoroughly since it was not cleaned at all since school started (it was about a month after school started). After the meeting, another suitemate was supposed to clean it and he still has not cleaned. I reminded him last week before I went home for the weekend and it still has not been cleaned (this was not the 1st time after the meeting I asked him about it).
On the day I went home, I realized that the kid in the single is using my bathroom rather than his. I asked him about it and he said he showers in his and goes to the bathroom in mine, which I totally don't understand. He probably is only doing this since his bathroom is disgusting (as it has not been cleaned at all) and my bathroom is relatively clean as it was cleaned twice by me and ONLY ME.
It just pisses me off that I'm like the only clean guy in this suite and that everybody is doing whatever the fuck they want. I mean there has been a pizza box in the common area for about 3 weeks now after 1 of them ordered pizza. It just goes to show that they are pigs and never clean up after themselves. I'm the only one taking initiative and I'm almost at a breaking point. I honestly don't know what to do since I have to put up with this shit until the year is over in May of next year. Should I go to my RA (who seems very distant)? Should I contact my RA from last year (who is still an RA and I had a really good relationship with)? Should I just bite the bullet and continue to clean the bathroom by myself; I got to ask my roommate though since he uses that bathroom and he is far cleaner than my suitemates. Any suggestions would do and I greatly appreciate them. Sorry for the long rant just really fed up.
