So...guilty gendered roles pleasures?

Random topic, but yeah. Society demands that we fit into gender roles as early as infants. Our parents choose to dress us in pink or blue, depending on our gender. It only gets worse as time goes on - when buying a Happy Meal; we get asked, a boy toy or a girl toy? Often we get shit for playing with toys that don't fit into our perceived gender roles. I had very few action figures as a child - one was of the original Red Power Ranger, and one was the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle leader - Leonardo! I played with Cabbage Patch dolls, that toy that could fold up (crap, don't remember the name now, but it was like a freaking Tickle Me Emo that Christmas), and a shit ton of stuffed animals.

My question to all you GBAtempers - what guilty pleasures do you indulge in that can label you as a "sissy" or a "tomboy"? (Yuck, I hate the fact that boys get more shit about gendered roles, especially toys.)

Mine are: die-cast Hot Wheels (I got one from McDonald's the week my grandmother passed - it was midterms, and my father decided to meet me in the McDonald's near the hospital), UFC (yes, this lesbian watches, just because it's so..violent), and the study of locks.

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i buy and buy and buy and buy then my credit card is full then i still buy and buy and buy : D
 
[quote name='Blaze163' post='2480309' date='Dec 23 2009, 11:21 PM']But then people realise I can't be gay when they realise exactly what I'd do to Hayley Williams if we were stuck in a lift or some such (who wouldn't?)[/quote]
Have a lengthy conversation about music, books, movies, or maybe (if she's interested) videogames?
 
[quote name='Veho' post='2480341' date='Dec 24 2009, 09:33 AM'][quote name='Blaze163' post='2480309' date='Dec 23 2009, 11:21 PM']But then people realise I can't be gay when they realise exactly what I'd do to Hayley Williams if we were stuck in a lift or some such (who wouldn't?)[/quote]
Have a lengthy conversation about music, books, movies, or maybe (if she's interested) videogames?
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You know it
 
When I got married, my wife and I both worked. She got paid more than me, so when we had our first kid, I stayed home and took care of him. I did all the cooking, cleaning, and most other housework. We had our second child, and I continued in the "mom" role.

When my wife left me, I got the kids, which surprises a lot of people when I tell them. There's certainly a stigma attached to being a domestic dad, but everybody that doesn't approve can go to hell basically. I've been told more than once, even by my own dad, that I was going against the natural order of things, and maybe so, but that's just how it's gonna be. My kids seem to be turning out alright, so the proof of the pudding and all that.

As for what I actually feel guilty about, I guess Sailor Moon might apply, and I always thought the old Polly Pocket toys were pretty awesome.
 
I got a lot of them. :(

- I like to play as female chars in videogames, mainly because I would rather like to look at a female character than a male one. I also care about how my character looks... (no, not in the perverted way. Most of the time more is better. :P )

- I like stuff which is colored "Hot Pink" ( mainly in combination with black or grey though)

- I also like Paramore and I have to admit that sometimes I sing along... x)

- I care about fashion but most of the time it just makes me sad because I haven't got the money for the clothes I want... :(

-I like to go shopping.

- Girly movies. Sometimes they can be quite good.. :S


There's probably alot more I can't think off right now but oh well.

I think everyone got their own guilty gendered roles pleasures, some got more and some got less, some pleasures are pretty good actually. For Example, I really like Girls who like cars. (And I don't mean that in terms of "oh well I think some cars look nice..." but rather the kind who knows abit about them.
 
[quote name='mthrnite' post='2480390' date='Dec 23 2009, 11:51 PM']and I always thought the old Polly Pocket toys were pretty awesome.[/quote]
Those things were awesome. Them and those Mighty Max sets. :ph34r:
 
I have a Few. Cooking, though as has been stated a lot of guys apparently like that.

I never had any 'girly' toys of my own as a kid, but I played with a few of my sister's.

I love to go shopping, for basically anything.

I care about fashion and interior design.

I listen to/watch music/movies/TV/Anime that some would consider girlish, which account for about half of all my entertainment.

I wouldn't consider these 'guilty' pleasures though. I've never been concerned with traditional gender roles.
 
[quote name='mthrnite' post='2480390' date='Dec 23 2009, 08:51 PM']When I got married, my wife and I both worked. She got paid more than me, so when we had our first kid, I stayed home and took care of him. I did all the cooking, cleaning, and most other housework. We had our second child, and I continued in the "mom" role.

When my wife left me, I got the kids, which surprises a lot of people when I tell them. There's certainly a stigma attached to being a domestic dad, but everybody that doesn't approve can go to hell basically. I've been told more than once, even by my own dad, that I was going against the natural order of things, and maybe so, but that's just how it's gonna be. My kids seem to be turning out alright, so the proof of the pudding and all that.

As for what I actually feel guilty about, I guess Sailor Moon might apply, and I always thought the old Polly Pocket toys were pretty awesome.[/quote]
That's pretty awesome, man. I really respect that.
 
I only had one action figure when I was a kid, it was also Leonardo. SAMURAI Leonardo! Take that!

The main reason most parents try to stick their children in one gender role or another is because they are afraid the kid will get picked on in school*. Well, guess what? Strange kids are going to get picked on no matter what, so the healthiest thing to do is just let them be who they are.

*Of course there are some parents who do it because they'd be ashamed to have a sissy boy, but that crap usually comes back to bite them in the end.

I don't have any guilty pleasures, I'm smart enough to know that there's overlap with everything.
 

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