Boy or Girl?

[quote name='431unknown' post='3597536' date='Apr 18 2011, 06:01 AM']Personally I think you look like a chic and a real cute one at that. I don't have a problem with people wanting to change gender.
also @ m3rox its not like she was about to go to bed with you.[/quote]

You DO realize that I wasn't being serious about hating him, right? I know it's late, but c'mon.

Are you tolling with the time? Your quote says 6:01.
Never mind.

[quote name='KingVamp' post='3597540' date='Apr 18 2011, 02:03 AM'][quote name='431unknown' post='3597536' date='Apr 18 2011, 01:01 AM']Personally I think you look like a chic and a real cute one at that. I don't have a problem with people wanting to change gender.
also @ m3rox its not like she was about to go to bed with you.[/quote]
So would you go out with... her?

If you had a girlfriend that later told you that she had a sex change would you still be with her?



D:!!! Well that quite different...
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That would depend on if she had the total package refit and not just a fresh coat of paint. I probably would.

@ m3rox how was I supposed to know your only kidding? I am sorry tho for jumping to conclusions.

i say girl and i guess congrats on the work done on you

[quote name='KingVamp' post='3597540' date='Apr 18 2011, 08:03 AM'][quote name='431unknown' post='3597536' date='Apr 18 2011, 01:01 AM']Personally I think you look like a chic and a real cute one at that. I don't have a problem with people wanting to change gender.
also @ m3rox its not like she was about to go to bed with you.[/quote]
So would you go out with... her?

If you had a girlfriend that later told you that she had a sex change would you still be with her?
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I would unless it was just a carnal relation.

[quote name='penguindefender' post='3597525' date='Apr 18 2011, 05:47 AM']New picture time.
Here we go.

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That hairstyle is scary... Your forehead looks massive with the hair pulled up like that :? Kinda aliean almost...

Easily passable for female.
People shouldn't really be able to tell unless they specifically want to think of you as a guy.

Good news!
I'm getting my name legally changed in about a month.
My driver's license, social security, and everything else will now have my new name on them.

I feel I can officially say, I wouldn't question it. Except if you have hairy ears. Hairy ears is only on the Y Chromosome.

Are you going for the feminine version of your current name, or are you going for something completely different to try to totally remove the old identity?

[quote name='penguindefender' post='3601046' date='Apr 19 2011, 11:57 PM']Good news!
I'm getting my name legally changed in about a month.
My driver's license, social security, and everything else will now have my new name on them. [/quote]
I'll keep my personal feelings out of this and try to approach it objectively, but I do have a question.

Do you not feel like you are erasing your identity?

[quote name='JoostinOnline' post='3601095' date='Apr 19 2011, 10:48 PM'][quote name='penguindefender' post='3601046' date='Apr 19 2011, 11:57 PM']Good news!
I'm getting my name legally changed in about a month.
My driver's license, social security, and everything else will now have my new name on them. [/quote]
I'll keep my personal feelings out of this and try to approach it objectively, but I do have a question.

Do you not feel like you are erasing your identity?
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Speaking for myself here (my own thoughts):

When a person gets a sex change, it's always because they are uncomfortable with who they are to some extent that they feel it is necessary. The name change can be necessary though. Would you like to be a women who shows up as James or another rather male name? The name change helps to completely reshape and establish. There are only a small handful of androgynous names in the English language, and pretty much all of those require the name to be shortened first (ie: Alex can be Alexander or Alexandra).

Although there is a mistake made when thinking such as this; your identity isn't just how you look, but how you act and feel. If those don't change, have you truly abandoned your identity?

wow, you're cruel man, I believe she's wearing a headband or something.
you're really direct man.

Nature of the question made my opinion off from the start. Pulling off female is easy enough though. Shows how much my head is in the sand. Didn't think they did those kinds of surgeries in the states. Learn something new every day.

[quote name='Jasper07' post='3601123' date='Apr 20 2011, 07:19 AM']wow, you're cruel man, I believe he's wearing a headband or something.
you're really direct man.[/quote]
Kinda right though; the face looks disconnected from the head.

I...really have...no words.. .looking at your chest shows that you're a guy, skinny guy that is. Now judging by your dazzling eyes, my opinion changes to you being a girl. Further analysis of your nose and chin/jaw, I get twitchy eyes with a thought "Is this Fred from YouTube??". Leading up to your lips...features.....of a girl. Looking at your full picture "Guy or Girl?? Sorry can't decide".

EDIT:- If you REALLY are a girl, then I apologize with all my heart for my remarks....on the other hand, if you are a guy then you must be....japanese lol. 'Nuff said xD

You are clearly pretty young, which will obviously be a huge factor in getting good results. Congratulations! It's hard enough to be trans, but if you can already pass that well you won't have too many problems going forward.

Just saw your latest picture with headband, there is some improvement, now just get some head-lights and we'll be in business

[quote name='SamAsh07' post='3602034' date='Apr 20 2011, 01:34 PM']I...really have...no wordsOrly? .. .looking at your chest shows that you're a guy, skinny guy that is. Now judging by your dazzling eyes, my opinion changes to you being a girl. Further analysis of your nose and chin/jaw, I get twitchy eyes with a thought "Is this Fred from YouTube??". Leading up to your lips...features.....of a girl. Looking at your full picture "Guy or Girl?? Sorry can't decide".

EDIT:- If you REALLY are a girl, then I apologize with all my heart for my remarks....on the other hand, if you are a guy then you must be....japanese lol. 'Nuff said xD[/quote]
Girls can't be flat chested?

Can everything be change to a different gender... "everything"?

Some are both tran right?

[quote name='ProtoKun7' post='3602015' date='Apr 20 2011, 06:20 PM'][quote name='Jasper07' post='3601123' date='Apr 20 2011, 07:19 AM']wow, you're cruel man, I believe he's wearing a headband or something.
you're really direct man.[/quote]
Kinda right though; the face looks disconnected from the head.
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It wasn't meant as an insult. It was... just a comment. I'm guessing it was so we saw her face without the hair on it. Still: Not a good look.

This one proves that I have uh.... headlights.

As far as the name-change goes, my legal name is Benjamin, but I've been going by Bailey for a very long time now. I want to make it official so I can have my real name on all of my legal documents.

Oh, and so I don't have to dress up like a boy to buy alcohol. Hate doing that.