How to mess everything up by thinking with your dick: By LittleFlame

Known this girl for about 7 years now, good friends. Long time friends we're pretty chill with each other, both old animefags and huge music buffs, same music taste compatibility there but we're both in agreement that everything would be so much better if we're just gonna stay pals because especially at this age dating is actual hell and inevitably break us apart.

Except she moved from Rotterdam to all the way to the other side of the country in Leeuwarden about 2 years back, so of course we don't talk as much anymore and definitely don't see each other a lot at all considering we're both busy and the train ride to is about 3.5 hours and then back which timewise makes it exhausting and then we both need to have time which is also a rarity.

But yesterday was the day my dudes. Was gonna see her for the first time in 6 months to just kinda chill all day, train to Leeuwarden had an outage at Arnhem and it couldn't go further, fair enough don't be discouraged managed to get to Zwolle and got over there that way.

After that initial bollocks rest of the day was fun enough, got some coffee. grabbed something to eat. went to her place and just watched some Netflix and had a few drinks in the evening, y'know the usual normie shit.
'til around 6 she said "I'm gonna go put something else on" at which point I jokingly remarked "psh don't even have to leave to room for that, c'mon gimme a show" which in hindsight should never have worked
Basically like friendzone lvl 99 at that point to be honest.
So as all that goes down I exclaim "Extra thicc" 'cuz she got da booty tho ifyouknowwhatimean
At which point perfect fucking timing we hear the door, her mum has left the building.

The mood is palpable.

We're staring in each other's eyes, we're slightly drunk.
We made out.

Now I dunno about you lot but if you decide that while you do have chemistry it'd be better off to stay friends then it's probably a very VERY VERY terrible idea to start making out with said friend.

Hormones are god-damn bullshit I didn't want this shit, now one of us is gonna overthink this, I'm writing a blogpost about this so it's probably me and that's gonna ruin everything and it's gonna be one of those awkward friendships that you don't wanna break off because you two work well together but now whenever ya see each other it's just gonna be like an "ohhhhhhh no"

By the grace of god her mum came back quite quick so it was nothing more than Second Base before it's like There goes gravity back to reality "oh shit we both did that"

there were not many words spoken after that, it was another hour of awkward movie watching on world's tiniest laptop and then I just kinda went home as she dropped me off at the trainstaton

I screamed internally the entire way home.


EDIT: WE TALKED IT THROUGH AND CAME TO AN AGREEMENT THAT WE SHOULD NOT DATE AT LEAST NOT FOR NOW WE CAN ALL GO HOME NOW

I can never watch American Ultra again.
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Try talking to her about it. I'm sure she's just as uncomfortable with what happened as you are.
 
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It's awkward now and it can stay awkward for as long as you want it to or you can attempt to dispel that awkwardness by talking to her about it. Your choice.
 
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That's rough man. She is too far away for it to work out.

Meet a nice local girl and keep this one as a friend.
 
Haha I know in the moment really stupid stuff seems like a good idea. I trashed my relationship with my best friend that way a few years back.

Being friends with attractive girls can be hard sometimes because men are dumb.
 
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Am I the only one that thinks this could have been a positive situation? She's obviously attracted to you. Why is it better to just be friends? Why is having a sexual relationship with a friend a bad idea? (Assuming both parties are mature enough to handle it) I'm looking for the negative consequences and im kind of lost.
 
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We're both still in our teens, we wanna still be cool with each other, getting in a relationship statistically at our age will drive us apart @WeedZ
 
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Sex was a fairly casual thing when I was in highschool. But I'm not going to give you advice based on my experience. I only have like one or two friends left from the day, and even then I don't speak to them much. I think thats just the natural progression of meeting new people and out growing others. I just wouldn't be weird about it. Good luck.
 
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Do you ever feel jealous or bitter about her possibly having a boyfriend. Or maybe you never really thought about it.
 
@brickmii82 nope, then again she's been single for like 2 years now but even before then I liked her ex
 

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