My mistake killed my friendship

Hey look, this again I guess since I can't sleep.

So I've been living with my boyfriend in a small shitty house I've rented it for almost 2 years. 4 months ago my best friend wanted a place to crash because he needed to move out of his old apartment and he felt lonely in that area he lived since his GF left to Switzerland.
So he moved in with us...
The first month was awesome; ps2, ps4, xbox, alcohol, snacks, anything you can think of basically
The next couple months were hellish, things happened my boyfriend started to give me daily headaches because of beef they had (my best friend threw away my BF's boots that were damaged but had some sentimental value since they were given to him by a friend who killed himself) and wanting him out.

Also, he wasn't interested in looking for a job nor helping me pay the damn bills, and because of that I'm really high in debt and risking losing my place.

Today marks the day I've kicked him out, and although it kinda gave me pity to see him packing his things (and kicking someone out) I lost all of my pity when I found out what he did to my house, my things and the amount of shit he talked about me and my BF behind my back to in-common friends.
He took my clothes, his clothes and my BFs clothes all in one bag, I literally have no other clothes and I have to separate and pick my shit tomorrow.
Here in Portugal we often use butane gas, and he bought the hoses but since he couldn't take them apart because I did the damn installation, he proceeded to cut off the hoses with a knife because, and I quote ''if I can't take it off and if its not useful for me, it won't be useful for you either''
He also bought a waste pipe for my sink and he cut it in half just... because. And that's an easy one to remove.
Both of these things weren't more than 5 bucks yet he just took it out due to being childish and petty.
He took the PS4 even though he never paid a fucking dime for it but I'm getting it back tomorrow even if I have to whack it a bunch of times on his face until it turns into a PS5.

He threatened me and my boyfriend, disrespected me in my own house, turned my place like it was his, brought his GF without my authorization and even said that he was the one who had to want it, not me.
Threw shit at my face, literally (typical: ''I gave you this, I gave you that'' bullshit)
And now has my shit, I'm gonna punish him in the worst way possible tomorrow and hit him where it hurts.

He's sleeping in a friend's house and soon, under the damn bridge.
Funny how my best friend became an enemy in such short notice.
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He sounds like a fucking douchebag. I would totally go after him and get your PS4 back, among other reasons, I'm so freaking sorry that happened to you, man.... -_-
 
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Don't sweat it, I thought I was worried but it turns out that even his own family knows he's a douche.
They're all on my side instead of his.
 
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I'm glad you have family to back you up, that certainly helps a lot, but still, I feel for ya, man, you don't deserve that. No one ever does, to earn trust takes years, but only seconds to lose it. Karma will get him, do what you need to do.
 
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Thanks mate, all I need to do is trying to slap some sense into that fucking kid (he's 19, I'm 22)
 
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Wow this is a nightmare scenario.

I think most people have to be taken advantage of at least once to learn to not let it happen in the future. I've had my fair share of being taken advantage of before.

But you'll learn in the future to be more wary, and you will come out of this stronger (cliche I know, but a cliche for a reason, it's true).

I hope you get your ps4 back. There's a funny saying "with friends like this, who needs enemies". Seriously though - he was a bad friend if he treated you like this and you deserve better.
 
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Are you saying you inviting them into your home was a mistake? I don't really think it was because you were doing a genuinely nice thing, it's their mistake for fucking it up and ending up as a huge douche. Good luck getting your stuff back.
 
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Throughout the first half I was thinking "well that's not so bad, he must be overreacting" but through the second half I found myself thinking more and more, this guy deserves whatever comes to him. Sorry you had to deal with that, I had a friend living at my place for a while and the worst thing that happened was a bad argument when we were drinking that led to me fearing for my life a little the rest of the night, although he apologized profusely the next morning and he genuinely seemed like he didn't remember any of it, and I've never seen him act like that any other time, so I do really think that it wasn't really him when he spoke to me that way that night, he had been sleeping and seemed to still be in a daze when he started threatening me. Long story short, it was a hell of an experience but compared to you, that was a cakewalk.
 
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@The Real Jdbye

Fearing for your life? I think this needs to be elaborated on more. What did he say?
 
What a fucking piece of shit. Hopefully you don't do the same mistake and get such a shitty friend again.

Sorry for your house and your stolen things too, that's probably the most infuriating over the broken friendship.
 
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@x65943 He threatened to stab me. He didn't have a knife at the time, and I was pretty drunk, so I wasn't too threatened. I just pushed him into the guest bedroom and closed the door and he fell asleep immediately (luckily)
 
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Ahhhh, the good old drunkard's threatening. Don't worry, they're the most inoffensive when they fell asleep.
 
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If you really want to get back at him, you could give him a dose of bedbug (all it takes in just one). Those little bastard are a nightmare to deal with and almost invincible. One would require several very expensive heat treatments to eradicate them all. Not something I would wish upon, even my enemy.
And there is this saying "keep your friends close and your enemy closer".
 
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Don't take revenge, it won't fix anything at all other than make the problem worse. Use this situation as a lesson for yourself, and no, the lesson isn't revenge...
 
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I always read your blogs till the end. Yepi.
Well, anyways, he's a douchebag. No wonder why his GF left to Switzerland, she made a good decision.
 
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What mistake of yours? The title is wrong. You did what you had to do. I've lost a friend to but it's because I actually did a mistake back then. He would never let me have some personal space and would talk to me about the same stuff repeatedly over and over, so I finally started ignoring him. I know I may sound like a complete douche. But it's way more complex than you think. My mistake was still completely ignoring him.

Anyway, enough about myself. Be extremely careful tomorrow. Hope you'll find a solution to this.
 
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Next time, make a big party, make sure he's drunk and falls sleep, pack his stuff and "leave him" gently outside.

Saves problems.

Friends like him are not needed in your life, guess why his gf went to switzerland...

PS: don't forget to take the keys from him while his sleep, that would be a hughe mistake...
 
i will say, this is NORMAL, you never know someone until you live with him, you think it will be awesome because you're friends and such, and then BAM he show his true face, this is something that almost everybody will see on their lives.
when my brother moved last year something simillat happened to him, he went to live with 2 friends, it was awesome at the beginning, but with time things started to get really bad, the last straw was when someone invaded their house and stole my brother's PS3 and 2 lappys from his friends, and what his friends did? blamed him and after they started to say my brother stole their things, after that my brother got their things and moved to another apartment
 
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the thing is, you need to know WHO you put inside of your house
or with WHO you're going to live, you can't just do it just because you know this person or something, you never know someone until you live with him/her
 
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