My ex boyfriend whom I almost started a family with was severely hearing impaired, but he never learned sign language. He was a foreigner but fluent enough in written English, so we became acquainted back in 1997 by chatting.
Anyway..
I understand that you sometimes have difficulty with communicating. My mother's not a native English speaker and though she's been naturalized and living in the US for 30 years, she still suffers discrimination and harassment for being a poor typist and having poor grammar. It's not because she's stupid, it's because she doesn't think in English and almost everyone around her does. So people underestimate her a lot because she's a little old lady with an accent. It's very frustrating and I know you must go through equally frustrating situations, because I have seen the way you've talked to people here on the 'temp sometimes.
It sucks to be treated poorly because of communication skills, there are people I wanted to punch in the face for mistreating my mother, they have no idea what she went through to put herself through college in the 70's and legally immigrate here, and sometimes they have no idea how smart she is because her *writing skills* are lacking. It's not from lack of education, it's not from lack of speaking English because she's been doing that since before I was born. She has a great vocabulary and that comes up in speaking to her all the time, but she can't shake the accent, and she notoriously doesn't punctuate or turn off her caps lock on Facebook. It's kind of hard to read sometimes, even for me.
My advice for you, for the reasons you've created this thread (so that people will have a better understanding of you and hopefully treat you with more respect), is to learn to redirect your anger and frustration instead of being so defensive and combative in your posts. I see posts where you look for help and are never ever satisfied with what you're told, and that is not helping anyone's patience. People don't start out pissed off at you in these threads, they just wind up frustrated and sometimes even think you're trolling because you seem to argue so much with people who were really trying to be helpful to you.
When I first encountered you on the forum I just figured you were a foreigner and that was why your grammar was so abrupt. I don't have a problem with that, and there are plenty of foreigners who struggle harder or simply have to resort to an online translator to use GBAtemp. I just think that you should consider to take things less personally on forums first of all, I think a lot of the bitter conversations could have easily been avoided if you'd just taken some time before "typing while angry".