Girlfriend problems :\

[Ducky]

Okay amm.. im 15 , and im kinda new to the all girlfriend thinganyway I just got a girl who I like and she likes me , were un-officialy boyfriend and girlfriend , but we sat together for a long time huging each other.

anyway.. I don't really know what to do , except the obvious of dating her and i'd like some tips. A friend of mine told me that I shouldn't show my love to her too much and spoil her.. I should be a more interesting person or she'll be bored of me and dump me eventually - Could you(the internet guyz) tell me if I should do listen to him bout it?

AND DONT FORGET besides the question to add some tips =P



I really do appriciate your help.

 

[MissingNo._]

15? And you JUST started dating?

 

[Ducky]

>.> Thanks for the help..
Admin or any other person , Please delete this useless post he and I made.

Truely didnt make no effort to me or him and could even be as an insult\harassment.

 

[Guild McCommunist]

*Puke*

These pukey relationships, personally, are about as meaningful as... as... fuck, I can't find a good simile. Anyway, you're 15, it doesn't matter. The only reason people care about having these barfy relationships is to say you have one. From this "drama", it sounds like "well, she's kinda my girlfriend and we hang out on the swings together and sometimes I'll split my sandwich with her". My advice: dump, forget, wait a few years, pick up another chick, buy a pack of condoms, and go nuts. If you thought you're joking, then you're wrong. I'm dead serious.

By the way, I'm only a year older. Mind you, I could easily pass for a bit older, but still. I do find many of my similarly aged counterparts to be pretty stupid, though. I'm a child prodigy! Muahahahaha!

 

[Ducky]

I dont really mind that , i'd just love if you'd give me some tips to go with .. About Relationship MAINLY. Dont mind what you think about me or whatever.

Oh and thanks anyways.

 

[Sephi]

Mitchell]
15? And you JUST started dating?

I'm 17 and I've never dated. I don't like relationships like that, just don't care for them.

 

[sprogurt]

:\ Showing love in a relationship is part of the relationship! from personal experience it's okay to do, just don't show her all your feelings and hopes and dreams for the future from day 1. Just keep her interested by keeping her guessing. If you do random nights where the 2 of you go out for a night (amusements are great! extra love for teddys

) instead of being stuck in just watching tv. Also befriend her friends, when they accept you then she'll feel more happy, and you have someone on the inside who could get you a 2nd chance if things don't work out the first time. Also then her friends won't be bitchy about you (even if they seem nice towards you trust me they will bitch, i sat in a room whilst 2 of my female friends bitched about their best mate!) For kissing just go for it, don't pull out >.< i did my first 2 times and she thought i hated her XD but as soon as you've done the first one you'll know how to kiss...thats all i can think of atm

 

[omgpwn666]

Mitchell]
15? And you JUST started dating?

I'm 17 and I've never dated. I don't like relationships like that, just don't care for them.

Doing what im doing? Waiting till your older to become prisoner?

 

[Ducky]

:\ Showing love in a relationship is part of the relationship! from personal experience it's okay to do, just don't show her all your feelings and hopes and dreams for the future from day 1. Just keep her interested by keeping her guessing. If you do random nights where the 2 of you go out for a night (amusements are great! extra love for teddys

) instead of being stuck in just watching tv. Also befriend her friends, when they accept you then she'll feel more happy, and you have someone on the inside who could get you a 2nd chance if things don't work out the first time. Also then her friends won't be bitchy about you (even if they seem nice towards you trust me they will bitch, i sat in a room whilst 2 of my female friends bitched about their best mate!) For kissing just go for it, don't pull out >.< i did my first 2 times and she thought i hated her XD but as soon as you've done the first one you'll know how to kiss...thats all i can think of atm

That was truely a helping post.

Thank you. Very well appriciated.

 

[sprogurt]

No worries ^.^ i had my first (what i'd class as real) relationship at 14 and know how hard it is getting advice >.<

EDIT

Also don't be too forceful, afterall she has emotions too.

 

[Ducky]

what do you meen by forcfull?

 

[omgpwn666]

Im guessing... you:"Lets watch a movie!" her:"I'm fine,I rather stay in" you: "Were gonna go anyways!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BLAGAAGA"



Maby

 

[sprogurt]

kinda, don't always make her do the things you wanna do. Some of the time is okay as it shows she's taking a interest in you and your life.

 

[Guild McCommunist]

No worries ^.^ i had my first (what i'd class as real) relationship at 14 and know how hard it is getting advice >.<

EDIT

Also don't be too forceful, afterall she has emotions too.

Women have emotions? I just thought they were robots that cooked and cleaned. That's my sexist joke for the day, dammit.

Also, if you're confiding in the wisdom of the folks in the intertubes for relationship help, I'm pretty sure the boat's already sunken. Might as well get a few quickies out of it while you still can, then just raid the food stores and take the emergency boat to shore.

If anyone's wondering, I've made a personal decision to not date until college. I'm not seeing the point of having some fake and pukey relationship with some purely on the basis of "why the hell not?" I'm already happy as I am and there's nothing in my life that would be better by having some nagging girlfriend storming up fake drama and whining better. Not to mention I'm also an immense douchebag and doubt I could put up with all the crap without saying something like "wow, you're boring" or "you're really a gigantic douchebag with people".

 

[BORTZ]

Mitchell]
*snip

lol im almost 20 and ive never dated anyone.

@ Ducky, honestly us at GBAtemp arent going to be very sympathetic to your cause. Were a gaming community. I am in no way saying i dont care about your problems. And i am not saying you and I and everyone else here are unattractive nerds who live in our parents basement and never would have a chance with a girl, but let me reiterate, were a gaming community. you have better luck at Yahoo answers.

 

[Ducky]

Im here for 2-3 years, I know the community =)

But I do remember a lot of signs of sympathy , If I wouldn't i'd just pass on asking here..

 

[fuze9]

I should be a more interesting person or she'll be bored of me and dump me eventually

Screw that line of thought. My main advice: never hold back your affection, but pause now and then to assess your own intentions, feelings, and motivations. (It's not as complicated as it sounds.)

In other words, if you can't help but exuberantly cling to her like a baby sloth to its mother, then fantastic. But try not to let yourself follow some course of action, obey some social rules just because it's "the obvious thing to do."

Your standards, your pace, your displays of affection, your body is yours and yours alone. (And, naturally, the same is true of your friends and neighbors.)

Not sure if these ambiguous words answer any of your questions, but we're all happy to help.

 

[Ducky]

fuze . Be a doctor . or something , cus you have a great way of speech.
Serously.

Posts merged

and your very carismatic too

 

[fuze9]

Well, thank you kindly. Now get out there and do some cuddling.

 

[Ducky]

=) we already went out , its very late at night now and it really botherd me.. so I had to ask someone.