Slight help needed

[Fyrus]

I am currently dating a really nice 23-year old chinese girl in London, apparently in some kind of medicine school. The only way I have to see her is by Windows Live Messenger.

I used to see her maybe two or three times a week, but now she didn't come for about 2 weeks. I know she have her exams apparently spreaded over this month, but I can't help and be worried about her. And I don't have a reliable site to check on news in London.

Do you think I'm overreacting ? What would you advise me to do ?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

 

[Deleted member 473940]

Have you mailed her or texted her?
News from London: there is nothing wrong here, weather is fine and exams going on

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[Fyrus]

I didn't try to send a mail, I've left those messages when someone is offline and they get it when they connect back, but I didn't do more in fear of being a little too overreacting.

 

[Deleted member 473940]

Just wait I guess

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She wont be in any danger or anything.
Its probably due to the exams. But if you have her number, try texting her.
Tell her you miss her

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[Fyrus]

I wish I had her number, but the only thing I have is her mail or Windows Live Messenger.

 

[Deleted member 473940]

How old are you and how long do you know her for o.o?
You dont seem to know much about her..
Did you ever meet her or just know her online?

well, if you are worried that much, just leave a mail saying you miss her and wait. there isnt much wrong with that, specially beause you dont even have her number.

 

[Fyrus]

I'm 21, and it's been about 8 months since I meet her and started dating her.

I don't really know a lot of her besides what she looks like and her first name, she tends to be rather discreet about her.

If everything went well, we were supposed to meet this summer.

 

[Deleted member 473940]

Well, thats a little weird.
All you can do is wait, really...

Good luck!

 

[nryn99]

how long have you been dating?

 

[Stewy12]

And I don't have a reliable site to check on news in London.

Not quite sure what you mean by this but the BBC London website will have all the major news and happenings going on in London.

 

[Deleted member 473940]

how long have you been dating?

QUOTEI'm 21, and it's been about 8 months since I meet her and started dating her.

Just 1 post above?

Anyway, if you are worried then just mail her ONCE. Thats pretty much all you can do at this stage.
Say something like.. that you are missing her

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[nryn99]

i wasn't sure since he put "since i meet her and..."

but for 8 months and only know that much? i'm concerned about your relationship.

 

[Stewy12]

So you don't even know the name of the medical school that she attends? If you did you could possibly contact them but I doubt that they would give out much information due to privacy laws and heh, you could be a damn stalker for all they know......

Shoot her an email and wait and see.

 

[Fyrus]

i wasn't sure since he put "since i meet her and..."

but for 8 months and only know that much? i'm concerned about your relationship.

I started dating her about 2 weeks after I've met her, so I put them on about the same time stamp.
I also don't see how her being discreet about herself could mean something bad, unless I am supposed to not trust her ...

So you don't even know the name of the medical school that she attends? If you did you could possibly contact them but I doubt that they would give out much information due to privacy laws and heh, you could be a damn stalker for all they know......

Shoot her an email and wait and see.

I just know a little about her work in it, concerning illnesses and something like genetics.

I suppose I'll try to send her a mail and wait.

EDIT : Also

QUOTE(Stewy12 @ May 24 2011, 11:41 AM)

Not quite sure what you mean by this but the BBC London website will have all the major news and happenings going on in London.

Do you know if there's a news archive ? I'd like to check it since May 8th.

 

[Deleted member 473940]

Calm down mate

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You dont need to go through news archives, nothing major has been happening.
If you have already mailed her, just wait.
There isnt much you can do and the more you think about it the more it will get to you.
So, just CHILL!

 

[CrimzonEyed]

Search for her on THIS Site, if you are lucky you might get her number

 

[Fyrus]

huh ... thanks but ... I only have her first name, nothing else.

 

[nryn99]

huh ... thanks but ... I only have her first name, nothing else.

8 months... first name only...

dude you gotta learn more about her. it's like both of you aren't serious.

 

[Fyrus]

She didn't answer these questions when I asked, instead saying she'd answer me at a later time.
When I say "her first name", it's only because I don't have the last, but the rest of information I have about her isn't relevant to this thread anyway, is it ?