Real sex vs porn?

[VinsCool]

lol, with that attitude, i wonder if you ever got to that post-sex point so far

I was mostly joking on some of this, but you would be surprised how often I hear that girls pull this cheap move on guys.

 

[Hanafuda]

The advantage of porn is that you don't have to deal with real people.

Pretty much. A lot cheaper, too.

 

[jDSX]

Real sex = vanilla
Porn = neapolitan

 

[skydancer93]

Raw emotion. The feelings you get when you’re with someone you love and you find that right connection is pure magic. It’s not just about connecting physically. It’s also connecting spiritually and mentally. Any two people can fuck and it may feel good getting off, but you will feel shallow and empty inside. When you make love, now, that’s different. It feeds your heart and your soul. You know you got it right when you can go again just shortly after and you want to keep going until you can’t go anymore. When you can just hold your partner and feel that same spark you did having sex.

 

[Deleted-355425]

its all well and good till you get the 7 year itch, take it while you can

 

[choupette]

Porn is a distorted version of sex, with almost everything weird, having sex with someone you love is a really fullfilling experience.

 

[Beerus]

porn=fake and exaggerated sex=better i think??? well not for cats at least

 

[aSpookyNinja]

tbh, sex is a bit overrated. I could go on a long tirade about it, but I'll just leave it at that unless someone wants me to give my thoughts.

 

[Deleted-355425]

why so much hate on porn?

 

[Sheimi]

Porn is eh, they put too much effort into it. I never gotten laid, so idk.

 

[Sonic Angel Knight]

There was a tv show years ago that explained how much hard work it takes to even become a porn star, is a lot especially for a guy. Basically they meet a lot of unrealistic standards and people who never had real sex before would probably assume is the "proper way" to get a girl excited.

The best way to learn is ask a serious person like a doctor or someone you know who experienced it (Hoping they don't make the same exaggerated story to make themself look good) or experience it yourself. Or do like everyone else does and watch youtube for answers.

THE VIDEOS ARE FROM YOUTUBE SO IS SAFE RIGHT?

 

[aSpookyNinja]

why so much hate on porn?

Because a lot of people like to think that just because sex is real, it's better.

Porn is eh, they put too much effort into it. I never gotten laid, so idk.

To be honest, porn is a lot better for releasing built-up sexual urges. I was left after a 10 year marriage just last year, and I put in effort into making a relationship work, but either there was no sex, or too much sex to be expected out of me. Porn, I can release my urges when I want, and not have to worry about someone else. Plus there's no risk of STDs or being cheated on.

 

[BlueFox gui]

i guess at the beginning porn was made to make people laugh

 

[Beerus]

tbh i only watch it for the plot

 

[linuxares]

All porn is filmed, if it is not filmed, it isn't porn. It's simply sex if not paid, or prostitution if paid.

Nay, not all porn is filmed. Some porn is photografted as well.

 

[VinsCool]

Nay, not all porn is filmed. Some porn is photografted as well.

Or drawn, animated, too.

 

[pustal]

Nay, not all porn is filmed. Some porn is photografted as well.

Fair point.

 

[x65943]

If OP is still reading this. This is the difference.

The first 20 or so times with someone are really awesome (with the first few times being out of this world). After that, if you have it too often (or always have it with the same person), it just becomes sexual release, and kind of devolves into a porn like experience.

IMO half of the fun of sex is the excitement of being so close with another human being. It's like nothing else you can do with another person. But eventually the boundaries between you and that person break down, and it's no longer nearly as fun to be so close to that person.

Women tend to not feel this way, but I think a lot of men have had a similar experience to this.

 

[aSpookyNinja]

If OP is still reading this. This is the difference.

The first 20 or so times with someone are really awesome (with the first few times being out of this world). After that, if you have it too often (or always have it with the same person), it just becomes sexual release, and kind of devolves into a porn like experience.

IMO half of the fun of sex is the excitement of being so close with another human being. It's like nothing else you can do with another person. But eventually the boundaries between you and that person break down, and it's no longer nearly as fun to be so close to that person.

Women tend to not feel this way, but I think a lot of men have had a similar experience to this.

It's great to be close to someone, and it's just like you said, too much and it becomes meaningless.

 

[Ricken]

I learned more than I thought I would from this thread. Huh.