Been thinking abt gender

And uh yh I think I'm trans, I've been going by she/her pronouns and a different name online for a while now and I've been thinking abt it lots and it's confusing but I feel a lot more comfortable as a girl
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I mean, you could be. It took me several years to come out myself.
Just remember to always be you and do what makes you happy.
 
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Congrats. Good to know you're comfortable with yourself; that's the most important thing.
 
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Yes, you can. It's just a stage in the transition that some trans people don't even choose to do.
 
be what you want to be, what makes you feel good happy and confortable and the most important don't care about what other people think about you, about what you want because what is important is what YOU think about yourself and what you want
 
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I don't know you that well, but is nice to know your comfortable with what you want to be. Least it be okay, then people who start to know you better means you be known by how you want people to know you and not what people think you should be. Did that make since? I think it only made sense to me. Sorry, words isn't the easy for me to use properly so that is clearly understood by others. :unsure:

What i mean is that now that you figured out how you want to be, people can start knowing you how you want to be known, and not what people think you should. Wait, now it could be offensive...

Pretend you read this and it made sense. It was intended to be a complement. :ninja:
 
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@eechigoo
Being transgender doesn't automatically mean one needs to go under the knife, hell it doesn't even mean someone needs to go through HRT (hormone replacement therapy.) Being transgender basically means one doesn't correspond to their birth sex. The rest such as HRT are completely optional.
 
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are you sure? like, have you ever had weird thoughts about gender when you were younger? did you evef used to act or do anything "feminine" as a child? do you genuinely feel uncomfortable as a male?
 
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I didn't ever play with barbies or do anything "feminine" as a child, and I started feeling uncomfortable in my own body in early adolescence, but I'm still a girl.
 
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Good on you OP. I was actually anticipating @Sonic Angel Knight's post, I somehow gained an intrigue in reading what he has to say, because I feel like it's never direct, yet funny. Anyways...
 
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@Crystal the Glaceon
Oh really, it's exactly the same for me *shrugs*
 
@Felek666
The actual idea of trap is passing as female, but it's basically another name for "crossdressing." But ultimately traps would still identify as male for the most part.
Transgender isn't an act of crossdressing. Transgender is basically when someone's gender doesn't reflect their birth sex.
 
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