It's even funnier, because the people who use "Red Pilled" unironically would blow their gasket when they realize the creators of the movie are trans women who have openly proclaimed to having intentionally made it trans allegory. Realizing that you're idolizing the most mainstream LGBTQIA+ movie of all time is the real red pill.
Why would I care that The Matrix was created by trans women? Let alone blow a gasket?
You take the red pill if you want to see reality, blue pill if you want to go back into the matrix.
I think you are missing the wider context that being his friend having a failed relationship and deciding that all relationships need to be warned beforehand. That's a coping mechanism and it's a really poor one.
If I got run over while crossing the road, I would warn everyone of the dangers faced when crossing the road.
I understand that it can be true for you but it's still not based on anything other than the criticism brought up in this thread. The movement is based on a lot of junk with the only legitimacy being the self-fulling prophecies to back it up. Simply put, it's literally garbage to everyone else who looks behind the curtains. I used to be a woman and used to deal with "red-pilled" guys. All types were clearly guys with deep insecurities and an obvious need for therapy.
It's garbage to everyone who doesn't have the same shared life experience.
Like how white people don't see racism because they don't feel the effect of it.
If what you're saying is that women will either ignore insecure men or treat them badly, further traumatizing them, then yes I would agree with you. What advice do you think a therapist will give them? They can't change objective experiences, only tell you to reject reality.
The reasons given by every woman that won't date me, are things that I cannot change no matter what therapy I go through.
There are some real arse holes in the red pill movement, because statistically within every group there are going to be arse holes. That doesn't mean that everybody who has a similar shared experience is an arse hole.
And yes, I understand that women are allowed to make choices & I'm ok with that. I just wish to meet a single woman who isn't either a confirmed anti vaxxer who is fighting against bill gates, isn't so committed to the idea of a man who is out of her league that she won't consider anyone else, looking for someone to pay their mortgage after their divorce, or rule anyone out who doesn't already have children. I can't bring myself to do the whole foreign bride, I know someone who did and they left and refused to take their daughter once she had a passport.
Online is brutal as women only swipe right on the top 20%, so I generally avoid that (free ones are dog shit, paying for one is like paying to be rejected in your own home).
I wish there had been someone to explain what to look out for when I was younger.
Joining a movement is a waste of time, but not joining the movement and trying aimlessly to find someone isn't going to work any better. Women are too ruthless for that (at least here, in the age range that I could pull off)
The basis of this philosophy, which underpins almost all conversations in his community, is that females get away with things by virtue of being female.
Seems pretty true to me.