are you a virgin?

[ScuberSteve]

They say people holding off is getting more common, so you virgins are not out of the ordinary.

I wasn't interested till I was 25, but I've always been out of the ordinary

Either way, I'm impressed.

That's good to know XD I was kinda worried when I was in high school because everyone else was losing their virginity to some guy/girl, but then I realized it would be better in the long run (i.e. rest of my life) to wait. I've also talked to older people(but I didn't like, directly ask them about it XD) and they said they wished they had waited. You see it in television too.

Now I have a silly question, time for semantics. If you can keep your virginity, lose it or take it away from someone else, then why doesn't the other person who took said virginity become a virgin? If you have virginity, then that makes your state of being a virgin right? If two virgins take each others' virginity, are they still virgins? Can you give back someone's virginity? If a person takes many virginities away like a stamp collector, is that person a super virgin or just a virgin collector?

The only virginity you can use is your own.
You cannot take it back once it's taken from you.

 

[SleepingDragon]

Does livestock count???

 

[beedog19]

Lost mine at 17 (22 now) to a girl that I thought I was in love with. I wasn't her first and she always said that she wished that I had been. Fast forward 5 years and we don't talk anymore... Funny how things work out sometimes.

 

[OSW]

virginity is intangible. it's a mental concept that can't be exchanged.

if you're always waiting for the right one how will you know when they hit you?

enjoy your life and do it when the chance arises (as long as they are a good-hearted person, not a slut)

virginity is insignificant if love conquers all.

 

[Bob Evil]

Lost mine at 17 (22 now) to a girl that I thought I was in love with. I wasn't her first and she always said that she wished that I had been. Fast forward 5 years and we don't talk anymore... Funny how things work out sometimes.

Yep ... I know what you mean ... I can remember the name of my first, but I struggle to even picture her face ...

 

[WeaponXxX]

Seriously I just went to GoDaddy and
SEXTEMP.NET is available!
Thinking of picking up the domain lol.

I'm obviously not a virgin but my bad "memento" style memory makes every time like my first again.

About a month ago I almost slept with a girl for the second time not knowing I had slept with her 5 years prior, To make it worse she had pics of us together...it would seem we kind of dated and I had no idea who the hell she was.

 

[gizmo_gal]

Yes and very proud of me.

 

[podunk1269]

I had to undergo lots of therapy for an addiction to sex, so no, not at all

 

[Bob Evil]

I'm obviously not a virgin but my bad "memento" style memory makes every time like my first again.

About a month ago I almost slept with a girl for the second time not knowing I had slept with her 5 years prior, To make it worse she had pics of us together...it would seem we kind of dated and I had no idea who the hell she was.

Thank God that has happened to someone else ... phew!

 

[hendu]

Could be worse you could be married like me

j/k

 

[Panzer Tacticer]

Virginity is really just magical, because there can only be a first time once logically.

What I have both regretted and not regretted (I realize that sounds complicated) is not having ever had sex with more than one person.

Yep, I have never had sex with anyone else other than my wife (unless you wish to get stupid and claim wanking to a picture is someone else

).

On the one hand curiosity is a major pain in the butt. Man I would love to do a few other females. Just to know, to REALLY know, what if it is different with another person?
But on the other hand, I get so many people that tell me "man are you ever lucky to have that achievement". And I am stuck thinking "really?, i don't consider it that thrilling".

My advice, once you become a proper consenting adult, don't go OUT of your way to bed several people, but also, don't go OUT of your way to avoid it either.
Because once you are married, you're off limits to others. And nothing wrecks a marriage faster than screwing someone other than your mate who you promised solemnly you would not do that.
If your single, who you screw is your own damn business. And how many is also your own damn business.
Of course if you lose count in inside of 5 years, you might be a slut

 

[SleepingDragon]

Amen, brotha!

 

[WeaponXxX]

@Panzer Tacticer
You know man you have one lucky thing going for you...the lack of wondering "was he better than me"

it is funny my g/f who I have been with for awhile has never really had any sexual insecurities but I told her of a girl I slept with the other day who was loose like a train tunnel. So after sex last night she looks at me and says, "am I loose?" lol...and now you have that common insecurity... she knows she is up on a wall being compared... no doubt much like she has compared me to her others partners. Granted she is no me, and has only but a few to compare but the ability is still there.

Sex is sex, a hole is hole, and it is a 4 point rating system (not like a common 1 outta 10 system)
1 is terrible, 2 is bad, 3 is good and 4 is great. Some might add 5 which is excellent but let us be realistic here...after 20 goods a great is often mistaken for an excellent. Reality a 4 point system...all which generally has NOTHING to do with the female but rather the environment and your testosterone build up.

Bottom line is you do have something special there Panzer and if your happy then by all means thats all that counts. Of the XXX+ partners I've had I would only die to not erase about 10 of em.

 

[Panzer Tacticer]

Well I like to tell myself, 21 years ago I had a moment of total brilliance

I hear guys complain about this and about that where their wife is concerned. All I can say is, if you had spent more energy picking the right woman, you'd be happy wouldn't ya.

My wife lets me have a hobby room. I live in a 3 bedroom, I alone have a room just for me. Son has his bedroom of course.
My wife lets me play on the computer all day.
I can play my games, or go online all I want.
I can go out with the gang on Sundays for the role game session no objections.
And you guys will love this, I can take her to the bedroom and do it when I want, or if she's tired, she doesn't care if I indulge some porn and just do it myself and let her rest

No it's all true, this kind of woman actually exists if you have the eyes to look for them.

If your woman complains about your gaming, and your computer time and your obvious love of the human female form you likely picked the wrong woman.

Keep in mind, I take my woman out to lunch a lot. I buy her snacks when I shop (she likes bananas and green grapes and oranges a lot). Even though I think tv is a waste of cash I provide it because it's important to her. You have to meet the needs of your partner too.

 

[WeaponXxX]

Well that is exactly why I have been with my g/f so long
We both go out and enjoy nature shit, our 3rd date we saved some sea turtles together and in a world where American girls are all like, "lets go to the disco"...or whatever it is kids these days are doing, well the fact that she enjoyed saving animals, my FAVORITE animal ta boot, well it was love. Her interest are small but compatible with mine, but what makes her more unique is her ability to show interest in my hobbies. It truly is like a best friend you get to fuck. Its far from a perfect relationship but it really has its moments.

 

[Bob Evil]

It truly is like a best friend you get to fuck.

It is the ideal, I think ...

 

[Issac]

no i'm not, i lost my virginity this year to my GF.
i feel good about it, however i feel sad sometimes that i wasn't her first too, considering i feel hers was very wasted on her ex. Unfortunately i can be a very jealous person when things relate to her, even her past.

however i'm not that immature that i can't get over it, i don't hold it against her, and it's not that bad after all.

....cut out....

I know the feeling... and I find it disturbing! I get jealous thoughts when I think that "what if I wasn't her first" even though I was... those feelings makes me so sad, and still it's not even true.
I got to know though, that it might've happened with her ex if he would've dared to come over to her place.. but he didn't, and I am ever so thankful... I don't know why, but it feels so important, even though it's not.

I love my girlfriend, my future wife.

 

[OSW]

well thats a better position than knowing that you're her second. i learned way too much about it for my own good. might have been better not to know.

 

[Bob Evil]

People worry too much about how many partners and suchlike that their current partners have had ...

We all have a history ... we cannot expect the new people that we meet to have sprung forth from the head of Zeus, like Athena, moments before we met them ...

There are some things that simply don't matter ...

All that matters is that we have chosen to be with them now, and they have chosen to be with us ...

 

[OSW]

Unfortunately it's something that naturally came to the minds of me and some others, ignorant of good logic. (however my case is not exactly typical, i have additional influences which contribute to my insecurities but i would like to keep them private)

People worry too much about how many partners and suchlike that their current partners have had ...

We all have a history ... we cannot expect the new people that we meet to have sprung forth from the head of Zeus, like Athena, moments before we met them ...

There are some things that simply don't matter ...

All that matters is that we have chosen to be with them now, and they have chosen to be with us ...

But in the end, i came to that conclusion too. You're exactly right.

I think you gotta respect that people had a life before you, even though it's hard (my experience in love is probably still considered immature).