Narin said:
Actually, more often than not, from what I am told by married couples is a lack of a sex life. I have personally heard many husbands complaining how after they got married, their sex lives basically ended or slow down. The more extremes I heard of people not having sex in years or around once a month to once a year at best. Though not all marriages fall into this category, it just seems like many do.
Comes from a bad habit a lot of people fall into. You spend all your energies during dating making yourself look so entirely great, but once married, you figure "ok I won" and then all the special effort ends.
A reality of marriage though is this. And 21 years later I am an expert.
If you let another woman wash your clothes, no biggie, wife is not going to complain. It's just laundry.
If you let another woman cook your dinner, no biggie, wife is not going to complain. It's just dinner.
Hell you can let another woman do anything for you, no biggie, wife likely won't complain. It's not sex after all.
But let another woman empty your balls for you, and suddenly you're in divorce court.
So the important thing to remember, is if your wife isn't doing it or doesn't want to empty your balls for you, she needs to be reminded she signed on for a lot more than all the non sex duties. And of course, guys need to remember, wives can just as easily put you in her position in any of the above.
She didn't marry you just to have someone around to mow the lawn, and repair the patio deck and take out the garbage.
You don't NEED to obsess over sex, but, if you can't find a reason to fill your wife with your dna once a week, why did you get married?
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