okay, i made a trade with a person that lives by me, here are the details of the trade and what imma do...
my ps3 for a....XBox 360 S (Trinity Board) 320GB Hardrive with 2 controllers, 2 play & Charge kits, & all cords
also found a person in Cincinnati, Ohio to mod it for a total of $60 USD and will stand by their work for 1 year/give a 1 year replacement on everything., and yes i know this person does a good job and does stand by his work, he was pointed out to me by friends and some family
again everyone thanks for your help