360:
-Resonance of Fate is definitely a good choice
-I really dunno about Star Ocean: TLH. I bought it day one, and gave up on it pretty quickly...couldn't get into it. *shrug* I should try again some time.
-Nier. Easily my second favorite 360 jRPG (second only to Vesperia). The graphics aren't amazing, and the gameplay isn't super innovative or difficult, but it's still a fun action RPG. However its soundtrack is godlike, and the characters/story are very well done. I love the main characters and their stories. The main story is also very good, once you finish the game and all of its endings. You have to play through it 4 times to get every ending. The second playthrough also adds a bunch of focus on Kaine and her past while going through the game. The first playthrough is a little confusing though, and it doesn't answer a lot. People tend to dislike the game because they only play through once and don't understand the story.
EDIT:
My review of Nier
-Lost Odyssey is alright, but the combat is brutal. It's so boring and easy after a while. You essentially just get a pattern and stick with it until you get a better pattern to use.
-Eternal Sonata is great, especially if you're a band geek. All the musical references are funny, and awesome. Combat is very fun, though it gets very easy near the end of the game.
-Enchanted Arms. It recieves a lot of hate, but I enjoyed it. The story is average, and the voice acting for some characters is...annoying at times, but the combat is really fun and I enjoyed it. it's amazingly cheap too. Bargain bin game, it's very old.
-The Last Remnant. I only suggest this because it's a bargain bin game. The combat is somewhat unique but I found it annoying. The story is average at best. Nice graphics though.
-Devil May Cry 4. I dunno if it's technically considered an action RPG? I've seen it slapped with tons of titles. Anyways, if you for some reason haven't checked it out by now, do so. It's incredibly fun.
-Bayonetta. Same thing as DMC4. Not sure if it's considered an actionRPG, but regardless...very fun, and the story is hilarious.
PSP:
-Persona 3 portable
-FF7: Crisis Core. Unlike FF7, crisis core had quite the story, since they kept it simple and made it all about Zack, who is an awesome character.