I realise that, if someone would do the same on me i would respond the same. I didn't know the question was asked that much. I shouldn't have asked that here to begin with, but i was a bit out of options since no one answered the question ;p even in the corresponding forum section.
Sorry you had that experience! Looking back, nobody even answered your question, they only had to say "get a DS flashcart", instead of making vague insulting remarks. Hope this hasn't turned you off the community. We aren't all like that.
Ofcourse i still like the community! And thanks for the support