One of the things that really irks me is that people seem to expect followers of a religion to be perfect, even many people in those religions. And so when they make mistakes people get these judgmental thoughts and feelings about believers of a certain religion. But the majority of believers that I have run in to agree that no one is perfect. In fact that's one of the descriptions of a Christian. To accept the fact that we are all sinners and fall short of the glory of God. We're human. We make mistakes. We aren't and will never be perfect.
One of the most popular sayings I have ever heard is, "The past in in the past. Learn from your mistakes and make yourself a better person today." Or some other variation of this. Yet, when it comes to religions or some sort of belief people often times judge based on the past. Everyone makes mistakes when they are growing up. Back then we didn't have much to go on. We have learned so much since then and the majority are coming to realize their mistakes, or the mistakes of their ancestors. There have been very terrible times in the history of the Church, yes, and there are still some very terrible times nowadays. There have also been more than enough problems between people who don't have a particular religious belief too. There will always be those who end up taking their belief too far.
One of my beliefs and the beliefs of the Church I go to is that, since the New Testament, we don't believe God would sent us to kill people. Extremists and radicals of a certain belief do take it way too far. I also don't believe we should try and force our beliefs on others. Sure, we can share and discuss what we believe, but it is up to the other person to come to the conclusion of what it is that they believe. As Foxi4 said earlier,
Things would probably go much smoother if we didn't butt into each other's business and get on with our lives instead of making it our priority to change the beliefs of other parties at all costs
Obviously I can't speak for everyone, and I don't even know if I can speak for the majority. It saddens me whenever I hear news about someone who went out and killed someone else "for their God." I don't believe that to be truth or a right thing to do at all. Another example is when that guy from that one place (I know, descriptive eh?) went out and was going to have a "National Burn a Quran Day." That was just wrong and disrespectful. People are entitled to believe whatever they so wish.
It seems like a lot of the hatred towards people who have a certain belief is coming from focusing only on the radicals rather than the people who do things like coming to a thread like this and try to have a civil discussion about it.
/rant