Been thinking abt gender

And uh yh I think I'm trans, I've been going by she/her pronouns and a different name online for a while now and I've been thinking abt it lots and it's confusing but I feel a lot more comfortable as a girl
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Either way, this is my advice, from someone who has life experience, and my last word on the topic because someone is going overboard with mod privileges. You may very well be trans, and it's important that you are true to yourself. But you need to take the time to be goddamn sure. There is an internet fad for wannabe transgenders. The real world is far more harsh. Talk to "older" transgendered members. The rate of depression and suicide is high among the trans community. Alot of it is from the treatment they get trying to do simple things like grocery shop, and the emotional issues that are common. The amount of stress that you will endure, not just mentally, but physically, isn't worth following a fad for. If that's who you come to be, I wish you luck and hope the best for you. But you maybe need to stop talking to people on the internet about it. Talk to your family and friends.

Had to edit that, meant to say you should "probably" stop talking to people on the internet, but I understand some people don't have any other option.
 
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I'm old school.
Male or female.
You can identify with either one of those, anything more than that and meh... I have no problems calling a trans a he or a she, just like I do to every other human being out there.
 
Being 12 was fun...

I grew up playing in the streets. We used a 2 buck ball to play soccer, and sometimes we just used bottles instead. We burned bugs to see what happened, we threw werid fruits that had black green juice in them, we played that the box trunk of one of my friends was a ship and we pretended someone outside was a shark, we climbed trees....
 
I would explore your options. If you truly want to be a girl, go for it. Also, being in a safe place is a must. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
 
I am going to agree with @Weedz that it's not all sunshine and rainbow. I think my what, 5 depressing blogs should show that it takes a lot out of you to be you. I spent years struggling with my gender and I am still fighting a good fight. I've gotten death threats, stalked, shout from drivers, threat towards my employment, you name it and it's happened to me. It's not something you should go into expecting it to be easy for you and it's something that you should talk to someone about
 

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