Wait until after puberty for what? Thats a mistake I made. Transitioning (as in the operations) ALWAYS are performed after you hit adulthood. Waiting to take puberty blockers until adulthood kind of doesnt work.Wait until AFTER puberty (ideally wait until adulthood), the father shouldn't have to pay squat, and changing a son into a daughter is utterly disgusting.
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"The father should...." Lets not mix this up with resentments in the divorced farthers community - this is a single case, highly emotionally, highly unusual. There is no concept of 'single case litigation' that would have any legal importance, coming out of it. This is literaly the worst case to generalize a point about something... else. And no - emotional argument is not enough to have the father not pay child support in this case.
And then what if the child turns out to be gender dysphoric even after puberty (so long term) - you might have produced multiple traumas doing that. Child currently doesnt seem traumatized, at least. So while highly unusual, and while I personally also see tendencies in the mother to obsess about the concept, and exploit it for popularity gains - child doesnt seem to be neglected or hurt, and if all of that turns out to be a psychological minf*ck, can separate themselves from it later on in life, simply by growing up. If they get puberty blockers, or not, is an issue that has to be decided on a medical practitioners ethics level. (They have councils for that. They have psychological assesments for that.)The son needs to be taken from his abusive mother, and given to his father. Then the mother can be sued for child abuse.
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