Girlfriend with a male best friend?

[mikefor20]

Holy shit dude how old are you? 15? Common, if you really are 38 years old and gained life experience, no way would you ever think like that.

Sorry, I grew up in a time when you were expected to be a man. I can't quite grasp the everyone is a woman concept of this generation. Grow a pair.

Rude! I'm friends with 15 year olds!

Calm down ladies.It's the truth. For the guy not to even think about it? then yes I am right. If the tought does not occur then ugly,out of league,gay,puss something is going on. Period. I am talking about men, average men, with fully descended testes and some kind of testosterone and drive to get out there and live life outside their gaming lounge. Not whatever you males are. And I am right.

 

[VinsCool]

Sorry, I grew up in a time when you were expected to be a man. I can't quite grasp the everyone is a woman concept of this generation. Grow a pair.



Calm down ladies.It's the truth. For the guy not to even think about it? then yes I am right. If the tought does not occur then ugly,out of league,gay,puss something is going on. Period. I am talking about men, average men, with fully descended testes and some kind of testosterone and drive to get out there and live life outside their gaming lounge. Not whatever you males are. And I am right.

You sir are funny. Really.

I'm not gonna waste time arguing with you, and I hope everyone else will do the same.

 

[dankzegriefer]

Sorry, I grew up in a time when you were expected to be a man. I can't quite grasp the everyone is a woman concept of this generation. Grow a pair.



Calm down ladies.It's the truth. For the guy not to even think about it? then yes I am right. If the tought does not occur then ugly,out of league,gay,puss something is going on. Period. I am talking about men, average men, with fully descended testes and some kind of testosterone and drive to get out there and live life outside their gaming lounge. Not whatever you males are. And I am right.

I'm a conspiracy theorist.
What you just said is the most incoherent illogical garbage I've ever heard.
Also you obviously didn't, your behavior is on par with a mentally challanged 12 year old trying way to hard to be cool.

 

[mikefor20]

Ladies please. If he wanted to get with the dude then he should ask you two.

 

[Zeriel]

WOW you are so off.. When did violence get in to conversation. So we are off now on another tangent because someone is lying to themselves about life the universe and everything and in the process trying to steer the perceived fight to a winnable arena. Of course being a man doesn't require sex and violence. However being a man does require testicles. Grow a pair. And yes,we pretty much want to bang every woman that we consider attractive. We notice them all. Anyone who says otherwise is gay,retarded or lying. Women do it too. If a hot guy is in the room all the girls are all over him too. Just cause all the princesses in here think that it's "yucky" does not mean they don't so it. WOMEN ARE JUST AS NASTY AS GUYS! It's an animal thing. You can't help it. And yes Joostin, 100%, you are an animal. Maybe not vicious. I would guess docile and submissive, kinda fem. But you are an animal who eats and shits none the less. Why are people in such denial?? This thread is such bullshit. OP grow a pair or grow a vagina, your choice.

So much this, I'm so sick and tired of the politically correct and the SJWs that think their shit doesn't stink. The human race is sexual by nature, humans like to fuck that's why there's 7 Billion of us,
people need to stop being so retarded about sex and grow the fuck up.

 

[TotalInsanity4]

WOW you are so off.. When did violence get in to conversation. So we are off now on another tangent because someone is lying to themselves about life the universe and everything and in the process trying to steer the perceived fight to a winnable arena. Of course being a man doesn't require sex and violence. However being a man does require testicles. Grow a pair. And yes,we pretty much want to bang every woman that we consider attractive. We notice them all. Anyone who says otherwise is gay,retarded or lying. Women do it too. If a hot guy is in the room all the girls are all over him too. Just cause all the princesses in here think that it's "yucky" does not mean they don't so it. WOMEN ARE JUST AS NASTY AS GUYS! It's an animal thing. You can't help it. And yes Joostin, 100%, you are an animal. Maybe not vicious. I would guess docile and submissive, kinda fem. But you are an animal who eats and shits none the less. Why are people in such denial?? This thread is such bullshit. OP grow a pair or grow a vagina, your choice.

Hey @starly this is that "tagging you again before the day is done" thing I was talking about

 

[mikefor20]

Hey @starly this is that "tagging you again before the day is done" thing I was talking about

Calm down girl

 

[TotalInsanity4]

Calm down girl

I find it hilarious that you find the need to keep reaffirming your masculinity. Some might say that shows a greater underlying issue... but, as they say, that's none of my business

I also love how the focus of the thread has gone from relationship advice for the OP to hating on "offended SJWs"

 

[VinsCool]

Also you obviously didn't, your behavior is on par with a mentally challanged 12 year old trying way to hard to be cool.

Thank you. I did not want to post this but that's exactly what I had in mind.

I find it hilarious that you find the need to keep reaffirming your masculinity. Some might say that shows a greater underlying issue... but, as they say, that's none of my business

I also love how the focus of the thread has gone from relationship advice for the OP to hating on "offended SJWs"

That's what we get when "mature" 30 years old adults get involved in this sort of threads.

 

[mikefor20]

You are the issue, complicating a simple thing like this. I bet you do that all day long. Does it make you feel important? You feel the need to affirm your femininity far more than I need affirmation. Is that a common theme in your life? I bet it is. Always proving who you are. Even to yourself. We are talking about average teen kids. Not you. Calm down. Be real. Everyone loves to Fuck. Grow up. Or go play with your unicorns and moon beams

 

[Issac]

Whoa, a lot of moronic guys over here. I've never understood that whole "guys and girls can't be just friends" thing.
I enjoy being friends with girls, more often than with guys. There's some intellectual difference that I've noticed. I just don't enjoy hanging out with most guys. As always, there are exceptions, and I've noticed that those guys I really do enjoy and connect with are "girly". Not in a gay way, or queer, or whatever you want to call it.

Of course I've thought of sex with some of my friends, if I find them attractive. I'd never act upon it though.

If you're really worried: Go do some stuff together, all three. Go eat something, watch a movie (either at the movies, or at home). Watch and observe, hang out and get a feel of the dude.

 

[sonicfan1373]

Well it is difficult to provide advice without additional context. If your girlfriend and this guy have an on-again-off-again relationship, then there is a good chance that their relationship pattern will continue. If they dated in the past, there is a slight chance that they might get back together (again it depends). Otherwise (and I believe this is the more likely scenario), they are just friends and you have nothing to worry about. Also, you do not seem to know much about this guy yet. Not only could they just be friends but it is also possible that he is gay or is in a committed/stable relationship. Honestly, I think you should give the guy a chance and formally meet him. You can also have an honest yet sensitive talk with your girlfriend about the nature of their relationship (be nice and respectful regardless what she says). If you are still not comfortable with the nature of their relationship and you absolutely cannot get past it, then you should probably end your relationship with her (this really should be your last resort though and you should not take it lightly, because you could just end up ruining a good thing due to the bad past experience you had).

 

[dankzegriefer]

You are the issue, complicating a simple thing like this. I bet you do that all day long. Does it make you feel important? You feel the need to affirm your femininity far more than I need affirmation. Is that a common theme in your life? I bet it is. Always proving who you are. Even to yourself. We are talking about average teen kids. Not you. Calm down. Be real. Everyone loves to Fuck. Grow up. Or go play with your unicorns and moon beams

Oh sure, I love the good ol' rubby, but my friends are far away from my masturbation or sexual habits.

 

[dark_samus3]

Sorry, I grew up in a time when you were expected to be a man. I can't quite grasp the everyone is a woman concept of this generation. Grow a pair.

I grew up in the generation that says to be yourself rather than who everyone else wants you to be. Sorry that you're lost trying to be someone you aren't, it shows in how immature you are.

 

[dankzegriefer]

I grew up in the generation that says to be yourself rather than who everyone else wants you to be. Sorry that you're lost trying to be someone you aren't, it shows in how immature you are.

We should all totally be one collective petty mass. Obviously.

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So much this, I'm so sick and tired of the politically correct and the SJWs that think their shit doesn't stink. The human race is sexual by nature, humans like to fuck that's why there's 7 Billion of us,
people need to stop being so retarded about sex and grow the fuck up.

Funny how you call me an SJW. Considering I'm as far as possible from an SJW.

And considering you share the same logic.

 

[cvskid]

If a male wants "friends" then they will most likely be friends with other males aka people of the same sex. 9 times out of 10 you are not talking to a girl of your own free will to just be her friend. Either that or you are friends with her because that is what "she" decided and you just accepted the situation as is. It's not impossible to be just friends but it's highly unlikely since someone will catch feelings for one another sooner or later which at that point it's just a one sided friendship.

Also next time you see a guy with a bunch female friends take a look to see if any of them are not so attractive or if they are all attractive.
There are two different sexes of human beings for a reason.

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I grew up in the generation that says to be yourself rather than who everyone else wants you to be. Sorry that you're lost trying to be someone you aren't, it shows in how immature you are.

I'd really like to think that but at the same time no one is who they really say they are or come off as such. Everyone has secrets to hide. If you can truly walk around being yourself 24/7 not caring what people really think about the real you then i applaud you.

 

[dark_samus3]

If a male wants "friends" then they will most likely be friends with other males aka people of the same sex. 9 times out of 10 you are not talking to a girl of your own free will to just be her friend. Either that or you are friends with her because that is what "she" decided and you just accepted the situation as is. It's not impossible to be just friends but it's highly unlikely since someone will catch feelings for one another sooner or later which at that point it's just a one sided friendship.

Also next time you see a guy with a bunch female friends take a look to see if any of them are not so attractive or if they are all attractive.
There are two different sexes of human beings for a reason.

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I'd really like to think that but at the same time no one is who they really say they are or come off as such. Everyone has secrets to hide. If you can truly walk around being yourself 24/7 not caring what people really think about the real you then i applaud you.

Heh, funny you mention that. I have more friends who are girls than I do guys, and I want to sleep with pretty much none of them. Though, I will say I'm a really weird person in general, so I'm probably in the minority here.

Yeah, the world isn't a perfect place, but if you look at it, we're a much more open society now. A long time ago, there were places where, if you weren't a certain religion, didn't act a certain way, etc., people shunned you. It's not like that so much anymore, it's gotten better. Ofc, it isn't perfect, but you're encouraged to do that sort of thing more now than even 10 years ago. That said, you're right, people do hide things (I know I'm guilty of that sort of thing) but people are less afraid to show who they are now, that's all I was saying.

 

[cearp]

Why did I get a notification about you quoting someone else? Did u mean to or was it a mistake from gbatemp

i quoted the wrong post (yours) by accident, then i corrected it, sorry!

 

[Chary]

shit @Chary looks like I wanted to fuck you a few years back

Ayyyy I don't doubt this

#MenArePigs
jk

 

[Deleted member 333767]

I am that guy who is best friends with a girl.

When she met her boyfriend (now husband) instead of being jealous and suspicious of our friendship, he chose to be the bigger man and made a considerable effort to get to know me. Turns out him and I shared a scary amount of things in common.

Wind forward five years and we became such good friends that he selected me as his best man/groomsmen at their wedding. To this day he is still my best male friend. I urge the OP to try this avenue. We're actually good guys and we really aren't trying to sleep with your girlfriend.