Girlfriend with a male best friend?

[Zeriel]

We should all totally be one collective petty mass. Obviously.

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Funny how you call me an SJW. Considering I'm as far as possible from an SJW.

And considering you share the same logic.

When did I call you a SJW?? I wasn't even addressing you

 

[ComeTurismO]

I'm sorry but as long as she's not sucking his dick, this shouldn't be an issue. We live in a time now where guys and girls are seen perfectly normal together, and most of the time it's not even romantic. I have a friend, who is a girl, and she is my first best friend I made in high school. I can never think of getting together with her, but we hang out like friends, and she even has a boyfriend and all three of us hang out and go for lunch, bowling, or dinner sometimes.

 

[p1ngpong]

Forbid her from seeing or speaking to this guy again, if she refuses this is why God invented slaps.

 

[dankzegriefer]

When did I call you a SJW?? I wasn't even addressing you

You were speaking to a group as a whole.

 

[Zeriel]

You were speaking to a group as a whole.

The group of SJWs so if you're part of that group you're identifying yourself, I don't even know who you are to be honest. I don't like SJWs censoring games and complaining and leaching off money out
of my favorite hobby. If you're part of this group then yea I don't like you, if not this kind of person then I'm not talking about you.

 

[DinohScene]

So much this, I'm so sick and tired of the politically correct and the SJWs that think their shit doesn't stink. The human race is sexual by nature, humans like to fuck that's why there's 7 Billion of us,
people need to stop being so retarded about sex and grow the fuck up.

Ehh, no.
The reason why there's 7 billion of us is cause of medical advances in the last ~50 to 100 years.
If we where still living in the 1800's, the global population was around 1 billion and the average life expectancy was ~50.
Right now, the average life expectancy (in the developed world) is ~80.
Hell in the last 50 years, we've gone from 2.7 billion to 7.3 billion.

The exploding number of humans is thanks to medical science.
If it was to thank to humans being like rabbits then you're clearly wrong and we would've had well over 100 billion living already.

Besides, sex and reproduction are two completely different things.

 

[dankzegriefer]

The group of SJWs so if you're part of that group you're identifying yourself, I don't even know who you are to be honest. I don't like SJWs censoring games and complaining and leaching off money out
of my favorite hobby. If you're part of this group then yea I don't like you, if not this kind of person then I'm not talking about you.

You were talking to everyone who disagrees with you, and I don't identify as an SJW. Because I'm not.

 

[Zeriel]

You were talking to everyone who disagrees with you, and I don't identify as an SJW. Because I'm not.

I already told you who I was talking about, if you want to make shit up about what I said go ahead but I wont waste my time going back and forth with you all day

 

[mikefor20]

This is hilarious. SJW? LOL Warrior! Couldn't be further from the truth. You have some people discussing something real. There is a POSSIBLE Sancho here, and a kid wants advice. And you feel the need to disagree just so people will listen to you. Several of you have no real business commenting. Your "I'm here, I won't be ignored" routines are tiresome. This was about telling a kid to "go have fun, be a man, treat her right and that more than likely dude IS trying to poke her but not to worry because you are already with her. Keep it that way". Now it's morphed in to a few of the exceptions talking about how the identify?. Social Justice Warriors? More like Self Righteous Brain-washers. Fighting for nonsense and femininity using nonsense! Somehow prostitution even got involved. He's a kid. Somehow I don't think that pertains. Get a fucking grip. Your identity does not have to bleed in to every post. WOW LOCK THIS THREAD PLEASE!

 

[starly]

Hey @starly this is that "tagging you again before the day is done" thing I was talking about

what am i to do here

 

[gnmmarechal]

(Due to my lack of IRL experiences of this, this is what I follow based on my animu)

If your girlfriend has someone who considers family, then you shouldn't worry too much, think about this in the eyes of the "big brother", he knows she has a boyfriend, and he knows she only considers him as a family member so all opportunities for said "big brother" are long gone, he may even have his own GF, so If I were in your shoes, I would trust my partner in this and I clear my suspicions away.

I approve of the info sources. It is my source of information too.

 

[TotalInsanity4]

what am i to do here

Just read through the thread, it's kind of impressive

Oh, and quote the OP and give him honest advice, since you're good at that when it comes to relationships

 

[mikefor20]

What? Anime is not real life! You have no idea what you are talking about! Get a grip!

I approve of the info sources. It is my source of information too.

Wow! Lock this thread!

 

[starly]

Hello fellow tempers!

So, I'm finally in a stable relationship after quite some time. This is the first time I've had anything like this last this long; a month and a half to be precise (not that long, I know).
Everything is going great except there's this "thing" that slightly bothers me. The thing part being her male best friend. They've known each other for about 10 years and she told me that he's like a big brother figure to her. Obviously, I'm a bit worried.
I know that jealousy is not a good thing but I just fear losing what I have. And yes, I've already heard it: "it shows signs of insecurity; you'll put her off.." blahblahblah. I try my best not to show it, but it is how it is.
She hasn't yet introduced me to him but I'm curious to see how they act around each other, just so I could judge the matter as it is and not how my mind chooses to see it.

Should I worry? Do I ask her to introduce me to him? Have you had any experience with handling this sort of stuff?

Just curious to know what you guys think about this. Thanks!

k, advice from an actual girl here. Best course of action in my eyes is to ask her to introduce you, this shows that you are interested in her and what is important to her. She obviously cares about him, but like you said, in a brotherly sort of way. If she views him that way then there is zero chance of them getting together, and even if they were in the past that doesnt matter. You're with her now. You like her, spend time with her, don't get all whiny because she's friends with other guys. You've been together nearly two months, and if you want it to last longer you gotta trust her and her choice of friend group.

I hope this works out for you
tl;dr chill out ask to meet him youll be fine

 

[gnmmarechal]

What? Anime is not real life! You have no idea what you are talking about! Get a grip!


Wow! Lock this thread!

B-b-but!

Sent from my cave of despair where I collect souls

 

[osirisjem]

So, I'm finally in a stable relationship
...I know that jealousy is not a good thing ...

Not so stable.
If they hookup ... that's their problem