-At what age did you do it?
I was 18.
-Was that experience good/bad (good sex, bad sex?)
It was exciting, new, and overall good. More exited about losing my virginity than actually enjoying the actual act which was unfortunate. (like OMG I can't wait to tell the guys about this LOL)
-How do you feel about it, are you sorry for not waiting, for someone other/better/more special?
I really wish I had waited, because I found out early that people could use sex against you. Right after I found out she was a complete drug addled nut-case. She tried to sleep with all my friends, and make me jealous. Then I found out who she had been with, and it made me feel...dirty. So yeah, I wish I could have waited for someone else.
Personally, I don't think someone's virginity has to be any of their friends business. Peoples peers make too much of a big deal about someone being a virgin or not. Comments like, "What are you gay?", and "What's wrong with you?" turn virginity into something horrible that should be kept secret, when it shouldn't be. It almost turns into a contest, and if you can't keep up you aren't a "real man". I am glad I have gone beyond that, and pretty much keep my relationships separate from what my peers think. Because in the end its about pleasing me and not satisfying the nosy curiosity of others.
I was 18.
-Was that experience good/bad (good sex, bad sex?)
It was exciting, new, and overall good. More exited about losing my virginity than actually enjoying the actual act which was unfortunate. (like OMG I can't wait to tell the guys about this LOL)
-How do you feel about it, are you sorry for not waiting, for someone other/better/more special?
I really wish I had waited, because I found out early that people could use sex against you. Right after I found out she was a complete drug addled nut-case. She tried to sleep with all my friends, and make me jealous. Then I found out who she had been with, and it made me feel...dirty. So yeah, I wish I could have waited for someone else.
Personally, I don't think someone's virginity has to be any of their friends business. Peoples peers make too much of a big deal about someone being a virgin or not. Comments like, "What are you gay?", and "What's wrong with you?" turn virginity into something horrible that should be kept secret, when it shouldn't be. It almost turns into a contest, and if you can't keep up you aren't a "real man". I am glad I have gone beyond that, and pretty much keep my relationships separate from what my peers think. Because in the end its about pleasing me and not satisfying the nosy curiosity of others.