How to make sure a girl likes you

[zeppo]

well, wouldn't it be extremely awkward?

 

[Issac]

if it is, then it's the wrong girl you're about to have sex with.

it's not awkward at all... or sure, if it's your first time, i think it's awkward no matter who you're doing it with... since it's a bit "scary"..

but no... nothing awkward in taking someones virginity... in fact... i think it's the most beutiful thing to do... not in a perverted way, but as I said before... as a sign of "You have me, I have you, let's live for eachother and no one else".

the both of you showing your most vulnerable sides of eachother, entrusting such a big step to eachother... yeah... well...

as I also said before, that's what I think, and my value and view of virginity... you might think differently (we're all humans, with independent minds), or you might think in another way when you're older.. no one nows, except you

 

[Taza]

The virginity shouldn't really matter half as much to you as the partner, or you're Doing It Wrong.

 

[Issac]

The virginity shouldn't really matter half as much to you as the partner, or you're Doing It Wrong.

If you meant that to me, i was probably blunt when I said it.

because, what I meant was: it gives doubt-feelings, but it still doesn't matter if you feel the partner is the one.. of course!
i just say it feels better "in my head"... something extra

 

[gigermunit]

so, which one of them is your girlfriend?

and is it chelsea you want to know if she likes you?

Since she didn't sit with you at the movies, it's hard to say... maybe she don't like you.. or maybe it was pressure from her friends... hard to say in this case...
any other scenarios to tell us about to discuss?

EDIT:

it's just a phrase.


Well... It's just a phrase, indeed.

But in which way can't you picture it? It's not that big deal to be honest... it's like having normal sex, just that the person you have it with havn't had it before... that, and that it might hurt a little...

None of them is my girlfriend >_< i asked Liz before and she said she just wants to be friends yet we go out to the mall every weekend, but i like chelsea but i dont think she considers me the same as what Liz thinks of me.

 

[zeppo]

well, you're probably right. After all, you know them and we don't.

anyway, I get what you're saying and I guess I can kind of picture it (in a loong time).

 

[Issac]

Oh, i thought you said that you had a girlfriend

anyway... in what way doesn't she consider you the same as liz?
from my narrow personal experience, I've found that my girl (space) friend (as in girls that are my friends) sees me in a way, and my girlfriend sees me in a different way... but still it all turned out wonderfull...

(half past 2 at night.. better go to sleep now).

hard to explain when you're tired.. but I think you understand..

Spend some more time with that chelsea, and "feel her mood", cause if she's all happy around you, and talkactive, and yeh, such things.. then there's a good chance that she might like you...

that movie thing could be coincidental... i mean... her friends maybe thought you were a weirdo.. and didn't want to spend the evening with you, and chelsea maybe didn't want to argue with her friends, and thereby sat with them, when she wanted to sit with you..

AND ALSO!
i think liz might've scared her away... you see... it'd feel really awkward sitting with someone you like, with another girl as well... think about it.
You find this one girl really attractive, and you go to the movies, and she sits, and spends time with, another guy, wouldn't that make you feel uneasy?

soo... try spending some time with her alone

EDIT:

well, you're probably right. After all, you know them and we don't.

anyway, I get what you're saying and I guess I can kind of picture it (in a loong time).

Yeah, well... You're the only one to know and decide what you want to do, and what feels best for you, and what you can picture or not..

But one final thing to say is: Don't feel any pressure about sex... if your friends has it, or someone talks a lot about it... screw them! the only thing that matters is yourself! (and the partner of course). (and i mean, in the future when the topic might be more topical).

 

[hollabackitsobi]

The only bad thing about "popping someone's cherry" is the blood. Just don't go in too hard, when you're in, do your job nice and slow, make sure you have a good exit strategy and pull out before things get too sticky in there...

 

[Issac]

The only bad thing about "popping someone's cherry" is the blood. Just don't go in too hard, when you're in, do your job nice and slow, make sure you have a good exit strategy and pull out before things get too sticky in there...

Being carefull, and slow... well, blood can be avoided. (me and my partner "avoided" it).
The thing is: getting in the mood, preparing the body for penetration (that word is so naughty!

), taking it nice and slow and being gentle... not go too deep, and yeah...

it's like eating some hard candy (some big hard candy)...
you don't want to swallow it at once, since it's gonna hurt your throat (and maybe choke you).
you want to suck on it first, untill it's small enoug.. or chew on it.. preparing the mouth for something to swallow, as well as preparing the candy, so it isn't too big...

i hope that metaphor is explaining it simple

 

[hollabackitsobi]

I know you purposefully packed that metaphor with more innuendo than there is stuffing in a thanksgiving turkey

 

[gigermunit]

zeppo and issac are on my list of people not to kill if i go on a rampage, thanks guys, ill keep yall updated.

 

[zeppo]

The only bad thing about "popping someone's cherry" is the blood. Just don't go in too hard, when you're in, do your job nice and slow, make sure you have a good exit strategy and pull out before things get too sticky in there...

my favorite part of that post.

And Issac, your metaphor sounded more like oral sex.

 

[cubin']

Isaac is awesome. More people should have the same attitude. It seems like in lots of the americaish countries violence is fine but sex is taboo and shouldn't be mentioned or talked about. Parents would rather watch someone getting blown to bits instead of a tastefully done sex scene while their kids are in the room.

We need to teach out kids more about it, the more knowledge they have the safer they can be IMO anyway.

 

[zeppo]

Isaac is awesome. More people should have the same attitude. It seems like in lots of the americaish countries violence is fine but sex is taboo and shouldn't be mentioned or talked about. Parents would rather watch someone getting blown to bits instead of a tastefully done sex scene with their kids.

We need to teach out kids more about it, the more knowledge they have the safer they can be IMO anyway.

I agree with you completely.
However, you phrased part of that badly.
instead of "tastefully done sex scene with their kids" it should be "watch a tastefully done sex scene while their kids are in the room".
You made it sound like the parents are having sex with the kids.

Oh, and for the record, I saw "the forty-year-old virgin" with my parents a couple years ago. It had a short bit of actual porn in the movie.

 

[Sonicslasher]

Isaac is awesome. More people should have the same attitude. It seems like in lots of the americaish countries violence is fine but sex is taboo and shouldn't be mentioned or talked about. Parents would rather watch someone getting blown to bits instead of a tastefully done sex scene with their kids.

We need to teach out kids more about it, the more knowledge they have the safer they can be IMO anyway.

"tastefully done sex scene with their kids."

that sounds wrong.............

 

[cubin']

lol

edited.

 

[zeppo]

I should put that in my sig.

 

[Mangofett]

Isaac is awesome. More people should have the same attitude. It seems like in lots of the americaish countries violence is fine but sex is taboo and shouldn't be mentioned or talked about. Parents would rather watch someone getting blown to bits instead of a tastefully done sex scene with their kids.

We need to teach out kids more about it, the more knowledge they have the safer they can be IMO anyway.

instead of "tastefully done sex scene with their kids" it should be "watch a tastefully done sex scene while their kids are in the room".

For an 8th grader you sure are snotty to the people giving advice to you.

We got the point he was trying to make, theres no need to be an asshole about it if it isn't worded perfectly.

 

[zeppo]

I wasn't being an asshole, mr. "stick it in her pooper".
I was just commenting on how funny it was. I wasn't making fun of anyone.

 

[Mangofett]

I wasn't being an asshole, mr. "stick it in her pooper".
I was just commenting on how funny it was. I wasn't making fun of anyone.

youse gonna get raped

in the pooper