Why? Because you refuse to treat them with the same respect. If you honestly accidentally "ma'med" a guy, and I mean dick balls, and cis. You would be curtous enough to say "sorry, I meant to say sir"
But if it's someone else, who looks like a guy, talks like a guy, and refers to them as a guy. But you learned they had a vagina one day, that suddenly you would disregard referring to them as a guy, and go out of your way to say her, purely over that? Then simply put, we don't like you because you refuse to be curtous or respect another human being. So why should we be respectful to you.
Who said I treated them any differently? Except, of course, when they try to DEMAND that I lie.
I won't do that. Not for any reason. I will NOT lie to a man's face and call him a woman, just because he is suffering from gender dysphoria. It's wrong to expect me to.
Your example is utterly ridiculous. You are comparing accidentally misgendering someone to refusing to play along with someone's fantasy.
It's OKAY for someone to say no to you. You need to learn how to deal with that. You can't force people to do anything, just because of your feelings. If you want the liberty to be whatever you think you are, you HAVE to accept that others have the liberty to just say, "Nope. Not playing. Go have your tea party or whatever, but I am not calling you 'ma'am'."
If you feel that harms you, that's YOUR problem, because if someone refusing to lie to you to support YOUR lie bothers you, YOU are the one with the problem.
One we wish you would find a better solution for than genital mutilation and permanent hormone therapy. There ARE better, safer solutions than being an enabler.
No one is "denying" them hormone "therapy" if that is what they use their liberty for and choose to do. What part of this is not sinking in?
Go GET your fake titties! Get that offensive penis removed from your "totally female" body! Get all of the PLASTIC SURGERY you want! Rock on witchyo bad self!
Just don't try to force me, demand me, cudgel me, browbeat me, bash me, threaten me or attack me because I noped the fuck out of your little game.
It's OKAY to be told NO! Isn't that what you have been trying to push for years? NO MEANS NO!
Why can't you take your own advice?