Check out Colonial Williamsburg. It's the nations first capital and many folks don't realize how awesome it is. Also, the Yorktown and Gettysburg battlefields are creeeeepy and ominous.From your post it's almost like kids (especially kids that grow up in low income areas) bully other kids and get bullied. Not out of racial hate but out of being kids...
Also (off topic), I have Family in Virginia and plan on going visiting in a few months.