That's not what I meant at all and it's hardly sexist - I'd rather say that I'm a realist. In 9 out of 10 cases, a man is going to be both bigger and stronger than a woman, not to mention more well-versed in
"fighting" - that's simply how we're naturally engineered as a species.
I agree that violence of any kind against your partner is wrong, regardless of gender, but we have to take into account that a man is more likely to actually cause harm to the other party. Adding to that, testosterone and adrenaline alone can cause quite a whirl in a man's head, which is why I'm underlining that a gentleman has to keep his head cool even more so than a lady.
Just on the side note, treating everybody exactly the same isn't equality - equality is when you treat everybody appopriately to their capabilities, giving everybody the same
"chances".
Take a 4 meter wall for example. There's Jimmy and Bimmy - Jimmy is 2 meters tall and Bimmy only 1 meter tall. If you give them both 2 meter ladders, Jimmy has fair chances of getting over the wall, but Bimmy doesn't - he's too short. They need to get a ladder appropriate to their height so that they can both get over the wall - that's equality.
//rant